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  1. vandalin

    Coming out to the household...

    So we've had and seen discussion on coming out to family and friends, but what about other persons in the household? My mom is living with us, helping around the house and with taking care of our little one. She will be very helpful when the addition comes and I personally don't know how well...
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    The Vandalin Saga...

    Ok, so I had to come up with some sort of title and that kind of fit. This is to get my story out of the "New to Poly" thread as although I am still new to it, this is an old story that keeps continuing and is fully a life story which I intend to update as necessary. So if you are not familiar...
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    Not exactly new, but sure feels like it...

    I have not posted since November and nothing really big posted since October. I feel like I've been neglecting everyone. :( Plus I really miss the comradeship this forum gave me. So I'm going to try to make a more regular appearance again. My name is Vandalin. I have been married to Cajun for...
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    What is romance/romantic?

    I was going to post this in answer to the poly decision/nature thread but as that one already went slightly off topic I figured I'd start a new thread. ...But this also leads to the question of "What is romance/romantic?" My husband is self-admittedly horribly non-romantic. He will have little...
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    Soul Mate(s)

    So I was having thoughts recently about the idea of soul mates. Some questions came to mind and I thought I'd put them to you folks and try to answer and gather my own ideas on the matter. 1. What is a soul mate? 2. Does being poly mean that there are no soul mates or does it just alter the...
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    Compersion: Merged Threads, General Discussion

    Being new to the Poly lifestyle and ideas, although they seem to be coming rather naturally to me, I was curious how everyone deals with and achieves compersion, besides communication that is. Communication is the cornerstone in all relationships but even more so in poly and open relationships...
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    Long info dump vent...

    As I posted in my intro, I am a married mother of one with a wonderful hubby and we have a great relationship. Recently, an old friend came back into my life and this has made us consider a huge change in our lives, polyamory. This may sound a bit like a dumping but I hope this post helps me...
  8. vandalin

    Greetings

    Greetings to all. I am a new poster to these forums although I have been lurking for about a month or two trying to decide if I wanted to post. Now I finally have the nerve to do so. A little about me and my relationship. I am a married mother of one. My husband is wonderful and we love each...
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