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    Hi Kevin , can I ask a tech question? How do I edit a post? I know, roll ur eyes, I don't mind...

    Hi Kevin , can I ask a tech question? How do I edit a post? I know, roll ur eyes, I don't mind :) I hit edit, reword my post, hit the reply and the message is still the same. I'm stumped and super non tech savy
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    Why do you use the online name that you use?

    Mines pretty simple and honestly I didn't give it a lot of thought, it just kinda came to me and I thought"yeah, that fits". First, I have an unusual sense of smell, I smell EVERYTHING. I'm a great cook but I never taste my food while I'm preparing because my sense of smell is stronger than my...
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    East Tennessee

    Any other polys in the area? We are in Knoxville and looking to meet the right girl or just chat with other poly's and ask questions as we are new to the concept and really excited about the way this has expanded our relationship (which was amazing to begin with). We would love to hear from others!😃
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    Taking a step back

    Hi folks, Honeysuckle rose here (F38,bi) i was on a few weeks ago asking about whether to tell my best friend that my husband and I were in love with her. You guys gave such amazing and thoughtful replies, so I thought it was time for an introduction. My husband, Jay(40 straight) and I have been...
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    How/when to have the conversation?

    I had this whole big long thing written , and went back and read it again and it sounded like a bunch of horseshit. So I'll start over.. First, thank you greenacres, that was very insightful.You guys have given Jay and I hours of discussion on all the issues and topics you've mentioned and it...
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    How/when to have the conversation?

    Thanks Kevin, beautiful advice! You're so right
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    How/when to have the conversation?

    Your right, I am making assumptions about her happiness because I'm just in the mindset of "we could love her so completely and make her so happy", but it's still an assumption since she's had no input . And the age difference concerns me somewhat, but your right I need to just relax, if this is...
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    How/when to have the conversation?

    Galagirl, that's perfect! Thank you everyone for all of your thoughtful comments...i finally feel like I have some peace of mind and a plan.
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    How/when to have the conversation?

    Wow, I so appreciate your honesty...that was very eye opening to read...i probably need to re read that about 10 times. Just to add a little clarification to our situation....i guess the lovesick feeling is stemming from the fact that before I came to my husband and expressed to him that I was...
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    How/when to have the conversation?

    Ok it's apparent I cant quite figure out that quote button yet... anyway....she is flirty with me at times and I definitely think in the right circumstances there could be intimacy but I'm not interested in just occasionally having sex, I want the relationship so if she's not interested in that...
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    How/when to have the conversation?

    I am afraid tho, that if I tell her now I could ruin it where as if I wait to tell her when she's more stable she might be more receptive????
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    How/when to have the conversation?

    We became instant best friends about 9 months ago...and we both have boys ages 6&7 who are also best friends.
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    How/when to have the conversation?

    My husband and I never even considered this an option before bri...we have always been in monogamous relationships and so this is very new. And she's moving in with us because she/we want to improve our financial situations and also to coparent. And yeah, I don't want her moving in then we drop...
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    East Tennessee anyone?

    Hi, any triads in or around the Knoxville area...we would love to meet others and possibly develop a family support group.
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    How/when to have the conversation?

    First, I'd like to say how excited I am to have found this place and the level of kindness and respect here is so inspiring. Anyway...the rundown is this...me: 37 yr old bi female, married for 8 yrs to jay..40 yr old straight male, and bri, 23 yr old straight -ish female whom Jay and I have...
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