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    Did I overstep our boundaries?

    Green acres. She is very savy on FB and not polite when it comes to these matters. When she told me that her ex had no clue that we were closed, I felt hurt. I was really angry at the ex for trying to split us up. I thought he knew we were closed and just didn't care. That wasn't the case. My...
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    Did I overstep our boundaries?

    This is just a tiny blip on the radar. We will continue as always. It is always good to get second opinions.
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    Did I overstep our boundaries?

    I am a gentleman Cindie. Ha!
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    Did I overstep our boundaries?

    So knowing what we know now, if I could go back in time, should I have contacted him?
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    Did I overstep our boundaries?

    Thanks for your concern Gala. I know there are a lot of jerk men out there. It just happens that this isn't one of those situations. No one is showing up at my house at 2am. The worst this guy might do is send her some flowers. His reply to my message was that he completely understands and...
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    Did I overstep our boundaries?

    I just read your other posts. He isn't a creeper. He is just an ex that realized he f**ked up and was trying to woo her back.
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    Did I overstep our boundaries?

    Gala. It was more of a pester than anything. She didn't feel violated or intruded upon.
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    Did I overstep our boundaries?

    He was just sending her lots of messages on FB about how he cared for her and wanted to try start a relationship again. They broke up last month and she removed him from her main FB page but not her business one which I thought was weird. Why one and not the other? He sent her messages on the...
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    Did I overstep our boundaries?

    We are taking a break and closed our relationship three weeks ago. However, my wife's recent ex boyfriend keeps contacting her trying to get back together. They stopped dating a few weeks before we closed. She keeps telling him she isn't interested. I finally got fed up because it isn't cool for...
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    Struggling with monogamy

    I have found that some people just spring it on their mate or get fed up and give an immediate ultimatum. I would tell her that you are going to start practicing an open relationship soon. Say that you still want her on that journey. Ask her how you can make her more comfortable with the...
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    It's Friday tell us something good

    I hiked with my dog and leash trained cat that rides on my shoulder saddle. I did my first yoga class. 20 brunettes and not a single blonde. I just wondered why so many brunettes. Cleaned the whole house for a 10am mimosa party before the first Mardi Gras parade. We start early.
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    Hi everyone

    Make sure you make a list of rules and write them down. I don't like sleepovers because I can't sleep when she is gone. I like to know what time she plans to come home too. No one is ever allowed to our house. I don't like hearing about her sex life with other guys. We always use protection. A...
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    Hello!

    Nice to meet you.
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    I've recently identified myself as polyamory

    Just because your boyfriend says he is okay with it, it doesn't mean there won't be friction. Be ready. You should ask him if any of your behaviors make him uncomfortable. Sleepovers, talking about or texting your other partner too much and changes in sexual habits tend to be common problems...
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    What is the weirdest thing you think is hot?

    Nurses I am totally crazy about nurses. I know exactly when it started too. I was going through puberty and I had horrible stomach pains. My mom took me to the doctor and a good looking nurse came in, had me remove my clothes and promptly stuck her finger up my ass. Instant life long obsession...
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    Hi everyone

    Hey Fred. I have yet to meet a poly gal that I would date as well. That is not to say that they have not been beautiful or interesting. I just haven't clicked with one so far. However, here are some tips for finding a single gal on OKC. 1. Read their entire profile before sending a message. 2...
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    Did I make the wrong choice?

    Presentation!
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    You give awesome advice. Thanks for being the voice of reason on the board.

    You give awesome advice. Thanks for being the voice of reason on the board.
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    What is the weirdest thing you think is hot?

    Try to just post one at a time so we can discuss and laugh. I think that a hard working woman is hot as shit. I don't care if she is a doctor, waitress, mom, welder, accountant or farmer. If I know a woman works her ass off and puts forth 100 percent, I am instantly attracted to her. I would...
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    Did I make the wrong choice?

    GalaGirl Everything that GalaGirl posts is well thought out and seems impartial. If you had to take someone's advice, she is a good bet.
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