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    Hung Up On Monogamy

    A complete novice at Poly as well, but for me I would want to know what the rules, if any, there are to his relationship with regard to the other partner. Is it open, does the other partner know about you?, etc. As for my situation we all live in the same house and has been openly discussed...
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    Lots Of Mistakes Made

    She has openly said she is still interested but want's to see my wife and I get things settled and does not want to feel a replacement, and I fully understand that. That didn't stop here in the beginning though when things were worse between wife and I, lol. There is a very strong physical...
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    Lots Of Mistakes Made

    We do things together but this is actually a running joke with us because they both know it tortures me. I don't mind actual errands and shopping but they can kill a day just looking at stuff and we all agree they don't want me there if I'm not in to it, lol. Yes, a temporary situation but she...
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    Lots Of Mistakes Made

    All is actually pretty good but the troubling part is she is not "ready" for intimate contact (sex) with me but has no problem with BFF, which is now girlfriend I guess? This is why I'm struggling. Girlfriend had pulled back from me because the wife and I were having some pretty serious...
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    Lots Of Mistakes Made

    Nothing in the way now, just trying to repair the relationship(s) Therapy is helping my communication skills and other issues are a work in progress. Thanks again
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    Hello all!

    Thanks. I've read a lot of the content here. One thing I will mention, when the email confirmation is not working there is absolutely no way to contact anyone here so it was frustrating. There is no admin contact, site admin, nothing available with out the confirmation being sent. I only...
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    Lots Of Mistakes Made

    Willing to listen, sure, but I'm scared to do that. On the other hand, BFF and wife have told others, friends, family about us. This gave me a sense of permanence, which in turn was more confusing when she pulled back.
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    Lots Of Mistakes Made

    Thank you. Yes I am in therapy for the first time at the request of both of them. Although ADD and OCD, and poor coping skills are part of the focus, communication is my key issue as the other parts are not as severe a problem for me. Opening up to the whole idea of not being monogamous is...
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    Lots Of Mistakes Made

    Sorry, long read. I am a 60 year old cis male married to a 42 year old, now, bi female, lol. We have been together for 18 years, married for 9. She had made comments over our relationship about attractions to other women and being curious in her youth but never acted on them. About 5-6 years...
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    Hello all!

    Thank you Evie. I'm glad too cuz I gots issues and need a fresh view of things
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    Hello all!

    I'm so glad the email confirmation is working. I had given up after registering a few months back. I just came in to see if maybe it was working again. All that said, I'm cis, married male and wife's bff is now gf, complicated, etc.
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