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    opened my Heart to Polyamory but feel used

    Back when we first started she agreed to go to counseling after she finished her steps. I agreed to this. It wasn't till i brought up marriage counseling last night that I got the NO. No I do not go to counseling. Have though about it. I understand that I cannot make her love me. She is...
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    opened my Heart to Polyamory but feel used

    Yep. and she was a big NO when I said a marriage counselor. No she has never apologize for cheating.
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    opened my Heart to Polyamory but feel used

    So I have posted a couple times here and read allot of the other post to get advice, but I’m at a lost. For those new here I’ll give a back story and catch you all up to date. 3 years ago my wife was an alcoholic and meet a guy from our church who was also a recovering alcoholic 18 years sober...
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    2 years in more then over due for a 2nd post

    Hi Kevin, Sleeping arrangements are fine. We decided before he moved in that it would be a 2 day then switch rooms. So everything is equal and fine in that department. I am learning to speak up for myself. It's hard for me since i've never been good at confutation. I'm learning that i...
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    2 years in more then over due for a 2nd post

    She just started back up in preschool. She was working until the pandemic and then the preschool closed for the remainder of the year and then she took a year off to help homeschool the kids. They went to school online during that year so there was not much she had to do,
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    2 years in more then over due for a 2nd post

    The younger kids think dave is just a good friend. The two oldest (out of HS) know most of the story and situation. It hasn't affected any of them much. they enjoy D being around. My wife is a preschool teacher so works 8 to 1 every day. I covered all but one of those flights. It was...
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    2 years in more then over due for a 2nd post

    So I came on here two years ago. I had just learned about Poly and was going to give it a try. At the time all I knew was my wife was in love with two men. So I believed I googled that. Which brought me here. I did a small introductory post. Which Kevin so nicely replied. Thanks!. I do come...
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    hello from the east coast

    Hi, I'm very new to Poly. Been reading up about it for about a month. It all started when my wife was in the start of an emotional affair with a guy from over seas. She was very confused as what to do. She still loved me, but had strong feelings for this new person. Something was missing...
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