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    How do you not feel replaced

    I'm really not sure.. So much has been said. But something close. She'll correct me if I haven't. And by dwindling, I do mean specifically our sexual life. Our friendship is strong. Our lives are stable/stablizing. But I have a messy inner house, and my sexual being likes painting with...
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    How do you not feel replaced

    Thank you Galagirl. Your responses are always treasures. Something I sort of left out above is the order of things. We began talking and considering opening a year ago. At that time, and until recently, there was no talk of putting us on hold. It's like she's just run out of desire for me...
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    How do you not feel replaced

    I know there's no one like me. She knows there's no one like me. 5 years of marriage, and the whole time a dysfunctional sex life because of my PE. Been in therapy, starting again with a new one, but now it's in the context of her actively seeking other partners, and wanting our sexual...
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    Anxious, emotional mess after new permissions...HELP!

    I don't want to hijack duke's thread, but in my case, "better sex than the last 5 years" is a virtual guarantee. I'm plagued by PE, and entering into these agreements with the overwhelming sense of inadequacy that comes along with that adds a whole other layer of ACK. I do take your point of...
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    Anxious, emotional mess after new permissions...HELP!

    SAME. EXACT. THING. I have a quote from Measure for Measure that floats in and out: Our doubts are traitors, and make us lose the good we oft might win, by fearing to attempt. Small comfort. It's crushing, and feels like preemptive grief which then I feel stupid about then feel horrible about...
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    login blocked by spam filter autosweep.

    my original login (bennie) was apparently banned by the auto-spam stuff. Can you unlock it please? Many thanks
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    Hi, my first account (bennie) was banned apparently by a spam sweep. Can you reenable it?

    Hi, my first account (bennie) was banned apparently by a spam sweep. Can you reenable it?
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    I felt compelled to register for this site just to tell you how incredible I find your insight...

    I felt compelled to register for this site just to tell you how incredible I find your insight, compassion, and wisdom. Thank you for doing this.
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