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Thanks so much! Luckily those feelings didn't last very long today. Overall I've been really happy lately. We are taking things slowly and taking one day at time.

I'm kind of having a "down" day today. I haven't had one in a week or two, and they seem to be getting shorter lived and I'm less of an emotional wreck. It tends to help when I talk it out with my wife but I don't want to have to dump all of my issues on her every time i'm feeling out of sorts.

I find the more that my wife and I communicate the happy we both are becoming. Most of my initial concerns have been addressed and I really think I understand her perspective and think I am capable of a poly relationship. Although I know I still have some fears caused by my own insecurities I am...

I have seen the term metamour used on the forum and in a few resources I have been reading. I guess it just feels so foreign to me at this point (but so do a lot of things currently).

I've been reading a little bit about compersion and it sounds like a really awesome emotion to experience. When I see my wife smile and I can tell she is happy it really makes me feel good as well. But sometimes I think about him being the reason for her happiness and I get a bit emotional. I've...

I used the term boyfriend mainly out of simplicity. I've asked her if she considers them dating but I think things are still evolving. I know they both have said they love each other. He is aware that she is married and I have recently reached out to him on Facebook. I'm not sure if that was the...

thank you Al and Shaya for your replies. I will definitely read over the posts that you have shared. My wife and I are currently taking things slow. Her boyfriend is someone that she met online and has not actually met in person yet. Although I have some concerns about them meeting, I am trying...

I have been married for twelve years and my wife recently came out to me as polyamorous. This is something she has been dealing with silently over the years and has finally come to terms with. She has never physically cheated on me and we are both very much in love. The topic has forced us to...