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Done and divorcing I have done all I could. She is happier with her new boy toy than with her family. I have our son.she gets to keep on living like she has no responibility. I will raise our son, give him the stability he needs while she lives out her dreams. I am a good father and will...

in addition The therapist we saw for 4 years SUCKED, my new cognitive behavioral therapist is amazing. After onky a few sessions I am gaining the tools I need to change. So far it has been going quite well. The behaviors have ceased and I am focusing on my own life and happiness. She truly is...

my thoughts Firstly I am poly. And yes if she chooses not to be with me and that makes her happy then sobe. I am not trying to get anyone on my side. I am just haveing difficulty being COMPLETELY alone. We have been 5 hrs apart for a year now. She is attending school and I am raising our son. I...

the problem The problem is that now that she has a new boyfriend, she doesn't want me anymore. In fact she loaths me and says that I have held her back from doing the things she wants to do. I admit to being controlling, and emotionally abusive. However I did not intend to do those things. I...

I am the So I am in therapy, and trying to get better. I have been alone in the house for 6 weeks while my son is away and am very lonely. My emotional and physical needs are not being met. I am struggling with manyb emotions due to the fact that my entire life is about to change. I am 100%...

The problem with finding friends on my intellectual level is that once I leave work I am always in the business of my son. He is a great kid. As for finding more support here I have no idea how long I am going to have to be here. The plan was for me to get out and move to where she is now...

Ok, I used to see a therapist for like 4 years, but stopped seeinghim as he coukd not handel the poly th I b g. I currently gave an appt on the 20th with a new therapist. I really have no support here. I work with peopke who are so far below my intellectual level that I dont waste the time. It...

We made the decision for her to move away together. It was the best option for her to get her masters. This all started a year ago when she moved. We have only opened our relationship in the past 3 months. She was very lonely and I wanted her to be happy. These meds are seriously messing with my...

I did all the things that you suggested this morning. She says she doesn't have a lot of forgiveness in her. This distance is tearing us apart. I love her so much and I put her on a pedestal. I hope I have not already list the best thing in my life, just when I need her the most. I amgoing...

Hello all, I need some help. I have been on depression meds for about a year now due to my PTSD. Unfortunately these have not controlled some of my major mood swings. Last night I had a MAJOR MANIC EPISODE. I said a whole buch of things I truly did not mean. I was feeling very marginalized and...

dates They really don't do "dates" he is with her almost everyday. He sleeps over most nights during the week.he has become a huge part of her life.meanwhile I only get every other weekend or sometimes two weekends in a row.usuall from Friday night about 10 ish till sunday at 2ish when I have...

Ok, first off let me apologize for the title of my original post, it was what was in the image verification area and I didn't notice till I had already posted. Any was thanks for all the response. One question and one addition. First, why should the no surprises rule be abolished? Second, she...

Hi, Ok here is the situation. My So (LadySFI) has a new boyfriend who is significantly younger than I am. He is 13 years younger than me and i have to say I am quite insecure. Not to mention I am a broken soldier, I have a bum knee and a bad hip that pains me constantly. I have mentioned this to...

Hello, I am J, LadySFIs SO. You will learn all about our situatuion by reading her posts. I am part of a triad and after 13 years of monogamy. LadySFI has a Boyfriend D, and I am currently looking for a girlfriend due the fact that we live 5 hrs from each other in different cities. I am...