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    Are Some People Just Not Built For Polyamory?

    Sorry. I moved due to college. He tried to get into a college nearby but didn't get in. I thought that could have been inferred from my age.
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    Are Some People Just Not Built For Polyamory?

    I have been dating a polyamorous man for about a year and a half. Recently we transitioned our relationship from a poly/mono arrangement to an open LDR due to my move to Syracuse, NY. I have noticed, in the 3 weeks that I have been gone from my boyfriend, that there is a stark difference...
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    Mixed Signals From My Boyfriend's (Former) Secondary

    I agree but I also think that if he told her spontaneously that he was no longer interested in her and then began to act cold toward her it would look like he was trying to manipulate her by giving her the old "you made your bed" routine. That is something he could never bring himself to do...
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    Mixed Signals From My Boyfriend's (Former) Secondary

    That's good advice. I suspect however that even if my boyfriend stopped asking her to renew their relationship, she would continue to flirt with him. He could isolate himself from her but that would mean losing some of his very best friends, who are mutual friends of hers. Unlike her, those...
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    Mixed Signals From My Boyfriend's (Former) Secondary

    Background Info: After my boyfriend came out as polyamorous, he told me that he wanted to begin dating another woman in a primary/secondary arrangement. The terms that we both agreed on were that they could only kiss; no sex, nudity or erotic touching of any kind. We thought this would work...
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    need advice on whether truth is best in this situation

    You need to stop lying especially because this man has issues with cheating. If he figures it out he will feel betrayed and your relationship may end.
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    Word Association Game!

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    Introducing a Polyamory research study

    I just substituted polyamorous for "in a polyamorous relationship."
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    Just so you know I won't be in a poly/mono for all that much longer. If you didn't read my intro...

    Just so you know I won't be in a poly/mono for all that much longer. If you didn't read my intro post I'm going to be in an open LDR in about a month. You're free to still follow me of course but this might not make me all that much of a case study. ;)
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    "Stop me if you've heard this one" - clichés we've heard from non-polys

    "[My boyfriend's] being a cheating, lying selfish hound dog (apologies to those with four legs and floppy ears!) and you're better off without him. " "I'd say [my boyfriend and his secondary] are both pond scum. Since they deserve each other anyhow, why not let 'em go have at it? Then, find...
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    Hey I'm new

    I've been dating a poly guy for nearly a year and a half with him being "out" for about 5 months. We're both 18 and new to it and I'm looking for people who are older and more experienced to help us out. The other forums I'm on have been pretty hostile. :( I currently identify as a mono but I...
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    Why do you use the online name that you use?

    My favorite Iron Maiden song. I also use it on other fora where I prefer to be gender-neutral.
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