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    my first post in a long time, and it's a good one.

    This is my first post in... well, probably something like 8 months, I've been letting life take me where it will. And I guess sometimes it is far more important to listen, than speak, and to read, rather than write. I have only been listening for months, never posting merely to put in my own...
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    friends stepping over bounds...

    So here's the deal, the girlfriend (genebean) has a friend of whom which is attracted to her . Or perhaps more acurately, has feelings for her. That I'm fine with. The issue I'm upset with is the fact that this woman is very much a lesbian, and is a firm believer that you can only love one...
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    finding zen

    So i'm going to be blatant and forthcomming, How do i find zen in waiting for my SO to feel she's ready for an open/poly relationship? it has been over a year now, since it was brought to the floor, and eight months since it was agreed upon. I do ok in being alright with not getting the...
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    perfect match, yet I have no attraction.

    so here's the deal, the girlfriend and I have been working on being poly/open for a while now. We're not quite there yet, but we're on our way. No, that's not the dilema. about a month ago we got a couple roommates who are amazing! We both love them very much. We could not have asked for...
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    is it wrong to look at others while with one?

    well, there it is, is it wrong to check out other people whil you're with someone? And if so why? Is it merely self conscienceness which makes the one you're with uncomfortable? Or something more?
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    when to stick to your guns?

    so, I have a question for all of you lovely folks out there when is it ok to stick to your guns, and when is it ok to bend? The girlfriend and I made a deal several months ago that at the end of august I could start dating etc. After talking about being poly for six months, we agreed upon...
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    sometimes, we have to accept that we cannot help some times

    so I arrived at a conclusion this morning: there are times in life where we have to accept that we cannot help someone. They have to help themselves. it is difficult to be powerless, and watch someone in pain or anguish. Especially if you love them.
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    swallowing pride, for better or for worse

    so here I go, my very first blog. Feel free to respond/tell me i'm an idiot, or agree with me on certain issues. So, here's the back story. My girlfriend and I have been together for a little over four and a haalf years now. And though we haven't been perfect, we love eachother very much...
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    is it ok to judge people on their past?

    so here's the scoop: the girlfreind has a problem with a couple i'm interested in. She feels they aren't trustworthy because of something which happened in the past. But also because she knows* she heard the male (mr D.) saying the female in the relationship (we'll call her z) should sleep...
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    sparing feelings....

    so the girlfreind and I decided we were going to try poly a while ago, we played around once, and it upset her to no end. She wants to take things slow to help her not break heeself. I on the other hand feel like i'm ready and wanting more. I guess what I need help with is how do I feel...
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    it's ok for her, but not for me....

    hi everyone, so i'm kind of new here, and i'm dealing with a problem. I've been ok with being poly for a while now, but my girlfriend is only a couple months in. She has always felt attraction to girls. I have always liked the idea, and told her so. She is currently in the works of seeing...
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