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Huh, this never occurred to me that this is a thing. New to this and though husband and I are arguably those things (white and privileged anyways, and while not rich, financially very stable & comfortable), but my partner is Black, and not remotely close to being either rich or privileged...

Ugh, Tuscaloosa - not my favorite Alabama city. Due to all the engineers and tech employers in town, we just have a high number of both geeks and transplants. Pretty good arts scene too. I've had an easier time making geek friends or finding gaming/maker friends here than I did in California.

Alabamian here too. In the Huntsville area by chance? There are definitely open-minded geek circles here. But even among trusted friends I am finding it difficult to out myself.. not due to the friends themselves so much as the potential collateral damage beyond.

To be fair, her assessment of poly was from freakin high school relationships she had observed. Holy. I guess that's another discussion but I imagine poly would almost always work out very poorly for teens unless and until it was a social norm. Freakin' teenagers can barely have a mono...

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Thank you all for the thoughtful replies. Reinforces what my inclination has been which is to leave well enough alone. It's just very *counter* to not only my personal nature, but the nature of my relationship with husband in general. We're very communicative and honest with each other, so not...

Hi, new here. I'm 44 and have been married for over 20 years, together for 25, monogamously to the same man. We met when I was 18 so literally, I've been with one man my entire adult life. Until about two months ago, that is. I brought up the idea of poly with my husband a couple years ago. He...