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  1. Kittykatz2020

    Should I pull out or just release grip?

    Yes thank you ❤️🙏
  2. Kittykatz2020

    Should I pull out or just release grip?

    Thank you GG! I almost feel like throwing $120 to you for your well-developed insightful response 😺. I have more and more just recently begun to step back and acknowledgment that I myself could be perpetuating a co dependent unhealthy relationship and for whatever reason had still been (till...
  3. Kittykatz2020

    Should I pull out or just release grip?

    Galagirl I am so appreciative of your insight and response, thank you very much. I also agree with you on so many things and I fully am leaning on that side as knowing that what I want and need on my side are not really too high of an expectation and really what most people could want and...
  4. Kittykatz2020

    Should I pull out or just release grip?

    Thank you Kevin, Seems alike alot of confusion and yes we both agree his behaviour is unacceptable at best...but for some reason still keep trying and hoping🤔
  5. Kittykatz2020

    Should I pull out or just release grip?

    Thank you We are still learning ..privacy does not equate deception and intentional sabotage. Thank you Galagirl, I suppose I'm still hoping for best and wondering if my concerns are valid or just my own poor reactions due to my newness or in inexperience with these types of rules or complex...
  6. Kittykatz2020

    Should I pull out or just release grip?

    Hi everyone, I'm still struggling with finding balance in my desire to have open honest sexual encounters in my relationship ...and I can see all of the underlying issues and wonder what to do? First of our shaky foundation based on lack of trust & communication issues is a main issue...
  7. Kittykatz2020

    When will it get easier or is this a sign that I'm in dreamland/ nightmare land & I've slipped...

    When will it get easier or is this a sign that I'm in dreamland/ nightmare land & I've slipped from reality?
  8. Kittykatz2020

    Need help..when texting sexting interfers

    Thank you again. Yes so much to learn from this new adventure and I am very happy I found this community to bounce ideas and concerns off. Thank you again for your feedback I appreciate all of your tips and advice ❤️
  9. Kittykatz2020

    Need help..when texting sexting interfers

    Thanks for your response definitely I understand your point of view and can see how communication is the key. In terms of barging in well if you think somebody's asleep and they're not responding then going to bed is not actually barging in it's actually just going to bed and discovering...
  10. Kittykatz2020

    Setting boundaries - he's having online sex without my consent. Is this same as cheating??

    Thank you do much for such an in depth introspective perspective . It's alot to consider ...thank you. 🙂
  11. Kittykatz2020

    Setting boundaries - he's having online sex without my consent. Is this same as cheating??

    Hi Certainly you have hit the nail on the head with my concerns that he may be leaning towards finding somebody else as a soft exit as you describe, but again I think that's just my fear and not reality. I believe we just need to really focus on what makes us happy and what comforts us and to...
  12. Kittykatz2020

    Need help..when texting sexting interfers

    Well in this context yes sex means intimacy
  13. Kittykatz2020

    Need help..when texting sexting interfers

    Well in this context yes sex means intimacy 😺
  14. Kittykatz2020

    Setting boundaries - he's having online sex without my consent. Is this same as cheating??

    PS sorry for my typos I noticed after I really do need to work on that. And also find the edit button on here LOL 🙂
  15. Kittykatz2020

    Setting boundaries - he's having online sex without my consent. Is this same as cheating??

    Hi Galagirl, Our actual agreements. Well right now . Very new in the water still failing around trying to catch the rhythm of both our desires and interests. We are open to sex and possible friendships with other people.. if love happens it happens but I really don't know how either of us will...
  16. Kittykatz2020

    Setting boundaries - he's having online sex without my consent. Is this same as cheating??

    Thanks so much Kevin for your response. I believe the biggest issue here is that we haven't really nailed out our rules and still are trying to figure out how to design our needs exactly within this opening and sharing of our lives. After a really good talk last night he agreed and seemed to...
  17. Kittykatz2020

    Setting boundaries - he's having online sex without my consent. Is this same as cheating??

    And to be clear we are sharing texts and pics based on consent of other parties. It is important to never lose sight that the people we add into our lives are equally respected.
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