Search results

  1. P

    my first post in a long time, and it's a good one.

    Yeah, she just got home, and I'm still doing good. A little tender, but still doing good.
  2. P

    my first post in a long time, and it's a good one.

    This is my first post in... well, probably something like 8 months, I've been letting life take me where it will. And I guess sometimes it is far more important to listen, than speak, and to read, rather than write. I have only been listening for months, never posting merely to put in my own...
  3. P

    friends stepping over bounds...

    Haha, no I suppose not. Well like I said, she said she going to talk to her today, so we'll see. Thank you for the advice and laughs
  4. P

    friends stepping over bounds...

    So for now it seems like she's going to talk to the friend. I hope it will help. But, there was a new development. The friend is moving out of her house, and into somewhere else. Genebean is helping her move a little here and there. While she was helping her move yesterday, this friend...
  5. P

    friends stepping over bounds...

    Thankyou galagirl. I apreciate your response, the issue really comes down to the fact that she doesn't want to loose this friend. I know what most people are going to say to that, and I don't necessarily disagree, a true friend wouldn't do that, but people in love do all sorts of things...
  6. P

    friends stepping over bounds...

    So here's the deal, the girlfriend (genebean) has a friend of whom which is attracted to her . Or perhaps more acurately, has feelings for her. That I'm fine with. The issue I'm upset with is the fact that this woman is very much a lesbian, and is a firm believer that you can only love one...
  7. P

    First Time She's With Someone Else

    that's great! It's always nice to hear about someone is surprised at how WELL they are taking their partner being with someone else, especially for the first time. It's very uplifting to feel good (or even just not bad), when something like that happens. congratulations, and my best wishes...
  8. P

    finding zen

    thankyou both very much. And sorry for not clarifying from he beginning. I suppose what I need more than anything is to know that I/we will get there eventually. And what to focus on in the mean time. Obviously strengthening our baisic dyadic relationship is of great importance. I suppose...
  9. P

    finding zen

    So i'm going to be blatant and forthcomming, How do i find zen in waiting for my SO to feel she's ready for an open/poly relationship? it has been over a year now, since it was brought to the floor, and eight months since it was agreed upon. I do ok in being alright with not getting the...
  10. P

    My Journey from agnostic - atheist

    well, although I can offer my condolences, and wish you the very best, I can't give you a hug through the computer as i'd like too. Things will get better, even though it may be difficult to see now.
  11. P

    mom and step-daughter

    well, the question comes down to wether this guy has a genuine desire, or a perverted fantasy. We have still yet to hear from him.......
  12. P

    mom and step-daughter

    perhaps he is from a different culture, if so, I think a response to ANY of these posts and questions would certainly help clarify. You're right, this is someone's life. That baing acknowledged, it holds little value to wether this is an honest desire shared between three people, or a troll...
  13. P

    mom and step-daughter

    I think i'm pretty open minded, thankyou. But, it just seems a little creepy, being as THAT is the guy's only post. Thanks, but "incest is best, put your wife's daughter to the test" just isn't one for my books. plus, it appears as though from the short amount of info the guy left we don't...
  14. P

    mom and step-daughter

    maybe i'm going out on a limb here, but a guy who calls himself "wet nips" and wants his step daughter (or wive's step daughter) seems just a little creepy.
  15. P

    perfect match, yet I have no attraction.

    yeah, I guess, haha. It's just something I have never delt with, and was wondering if anyone else had.
  16. P

    perfect match, yet I have no attraction.

    so here's the deal, the girlfriend and I have been working on being poly/open for a while now. We're not quite there yet, but we're on our way. No, that's not the dilema. about a month ago we got a couple roommates who are amazing! We both love them very much. We could not have asked for...
  17. P

    fluid bonding/bareback

    it's interesting to hear people's different experiences with/without condoms. The girlfriend and I don't use them when we're together, but do when with anyone else. We not only find it more intimate, but I stay harder longer, and she stays wetter longer. Plus she gets UTI's much easier with...
  18. P

    is it wrong to look at others while with one?

    just trying to see something from other's points of view, that's all. Posting here on this forum helps me understand my feelings, as well as other's.
  19. P

    is it wrong to look at others while with one?

    I guess it just seems to depend on your relationship. I personally don't feel it's wrong, but I can't speak for everyone.
Top