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    Poly-at-heart but monogamous in marriage

    Thanks again for your replies everyone. I know this is a dead thread, but I just wanted to update you all on the status of things. I'm currently separated and working out a divorce. I have tried all I can to reconcile my beliefs about openness and polyamory to my spouse. It has occurred to me...
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    Poly-at-heart but monogamous in marriage

    Thanks everyone for your responses. I've been waiting for the right time to bring up a conversation about polyamory again. I wish these talks didn't come with a lot of tension but they do. I wouldn't say that we are staying together just for the kids. I think that there is still plenty of...
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    Poly-at-heart but monogamous in marriage

    I’m having some major issues trying to reconcile how I feel right now. I’ve always believed that poly is the only relationship style that made sense but I’m currently married to a monogamous-only woman with two small children. I've always been poly-at-heart. In high school and college, I cringed...
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    The Mormon Club!

    I left the Mormon Church at age 18. My resignation probably was the singlemost defining point of my life. In the ten years since, I've remained active in exmormon bulletin boards. I guess I consider exmormonism as just one knock-off branch of the mormon culture, because people remain so active...
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    Change in religious beliefs and being / becoming poly

    Okay, well people always have different experiences. One person at a time may be enough for some. But you have to admit that there are a lot of monogamous people who could work out issues in their lives and relationships if they were open to others. Ive never understood monogamy. Even in high...
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    Change in religious beliefs and being / becoming poly

    I'm just sick and tired of people trying to force me to be someone im not. I think this is the singlemost reason people are unhappy in traditional marriages. No-one is 100 percent the person you would like them to be. With monogamy, your best bet is to find a person who meets most of your needs...
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    Change in religious beliefs and being / becoming poly

    It doesn't surprise me that there are many exmormon polyamorists. Good Mormons seek higher truth. These good Mormons sometimes find higher truth outside the Mormon faith, even coming to believe that the whole religion is false and choose to courageously change their lives to support the truth...
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    Female Couple Seeking Male for Triad

    You girls are beautiful. I just saw your post and have to say that your offer sounds absolutely beautiful. You girls are beautiful and I hope it works out with whoever you find yourselves to be with.
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    Change in religious beliefs and being / becoming poly

    Exmormon and wanting poly I’m an exmormon. I left the Mormon Church when I was just 18 against the approval of my family. It was hard to do and the effect on my life was significant. It was very hard to repair the relationship with my family and I still feel that I am dealing with the effects...
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