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  1. Newbie9

    Florida

    Nope! I joined some yahoo group about a month ago but they never post anything. Might be time to start one :) I'm just looking for new friends, nothing more at the moment.
  2. Newbie9

    Florida

    Nope! I joined some yahoo group about a month ago but they never post anything. Might be time to start one :) I'm just looking for new friends, nothing more at the moment.
  3. Newbie9

    Florida

    I'm in the S Florida area :)
  4. Newbie9

    Helping a cheater change - an exercise in futility?

    I clicked over and read your entire journey blog (you are adorable and your blog is fascinating, btw) I am unclear how your behavior was cheating. I'd maybe call it a boundaries limit violation? I guess it's just semantics but to me cheating is a set of choices and deceptions made deliberately...
  5. Newbie9

    Starting to think you guys have the right idea

    Yes I understand what you are saying I am not rigid in the sense that a person should not have changing needs or desires. Of course if xyz changes at any point it should be brought up and renegotiated. That's the whole point. That's what prevents cheating in the first place. It's really not...
  6. Newbie9

    Florida

    Hey people: Any of you in Florida?
  7. Newbie9

    Starting to think you guys have the right idea

    I don't understand the need, and there is risk involved. Pregnancy, STI's. I don't do drugs either and don't feel like I'm missing out. Not that they are similar I'm just saying I know people who smoke weed that think I am somehow not as evolved as them because I don't like weed. But it is...
  8. Newbie9

    Starting to think you guys have the right idea

    Anyway..... I keep reading and reading and reading. This is what I do when I am distressed. I read books. Just finished "In Sheeps Clothing".by George Simon. I read Internet forums. I read articles. I post things here and there. I need to post more. I am drawn to this forum, I keep coming back...
  9. Newbie9

    Starting to think you guys have the right idea

    If this is the litmus test in determining if a person is poly then I am poly. Like extreme poly. Or relationship anarchist as you call it. I'm independent, responsible for my body, time, and actions,trustworthy, and want the same in a partner. I have no desire to babysit adult humans. I have...
  10. Newbie9

    Starting to think you guys have the right idea

    Hi everybody I am a naturally inclined mono person who hates hates hates cheating, and has never cheated on anyone. My boyfriend, who I described in my intro post, has decided in the past few days that he is a sex addict and started attending SAA meetings. I have been suggesting to him that...
  11. Newbie9

    Hello everyone!

    Thanks guys! I've been poking around the site all day and and came across this thread http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=9172 And wow! Did that really give me some things to think about. I think at this point in time my focus should be on myself and figuring out what I want...
  12. Newbie9

    Greetings from a newbie

    Hi kc! Thanks for replying to my thread. Nice to meet you. I'm happy that you are enjoying honesty in your marriage, that is where i am stuck realizing there can be no progress whatsoever without it. I'm sure the new experiences you are having are tricky and are somewhat blowing your mind, but...
  13. Newbie9

    Hello everyone!

    I'm hoping to get a bit of advice. I am a naturally monogomous person and my boyfriend is not. He has cheated on every girlfriend he has ever had including me. I have broken up with him several times with him because of it. I know how much he loves me and doesn't want to hurt me and know he...
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