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Until We Meet Again Everyone, This has been an incredible journey. Right now I am in a very heavy spiral but I just feel I need to step away from the site for awhile. This is my own decision and no one else has made this for me. I think I am putting too much on the things and advice and ideas...

Drive Home DH and I had alot of time to talk today on the way home from a football game. He asked me if it would be ok if he could have a whole night with just him and J. I was very happy that he felt he could be that open with me. And of course I said yes. I was just glad that he could come...

Frustrations and Dreams How can one go along just fine for weeks, even months and then bam hit a brick wall. I have been crying nonstop all day. And I don't know why really. My stress level has hit sky high. It has just felt like lately I have been trying with all I have to make sure people...

Life is crazy, but what can you do Hey there folks. So life has been full speed ahead since we have moved into our new home. I find myself completely exhausted at times and forget to even get on the board to update what is going on. It has been a rough transition but I think we are all finding...

pillow talk Why is this pillow talk. Because one of the things I do when my husband goes out of town is lay in our bed holding his favorite pillow Which is what I am doing now. It usually takes me a little longer to get out of bed and I know that's pathetic. He has only been gone a couple of...

Update Hey everyone, Sorry it has been awhile. It has been a crazy week. We have moved into our new home with J and M. We have already had our fair share of jealousies and disagreements but with communication hopefully we can work it all out. J and DH went on a date on Friday. They were...

A note from vacation So lets see if we can catch ourselves up to speed here. I am pretty much mono although J and I have come very close. We consider ourselves girlfriends and love each other although it is on such a different level and different kind of love that I have for my husband or she...

Ready Set Clarify Ok everyone, First of all thank you for your comments and concerns. Let me start by saying J is my one I turn to for just about everything right now. I turn to DH as well but especially J. I can't imagine life without her anymore and every clarification here has been thru and...

lonely Thank u for all the clarifications J. I love u. She got it all right on the nose. Just feeling a little left out and lonely today. Nothing to do with J and her family. Just a little lost as to where I fit into my husbands life at the moment. Has kind of felt like he hasn't had much time...

loving ur post Polly, Just wantes to say real quick I love ur post Because I have a somewhat similar situation with a few differences. J and I are the women in dh's life. We are all sexually active. J has becomes my best friend. We love each other but she and dh have a whole different kind of...

feeling better today I am doing better today. Dh. And I are headed to vacation with his family. I'm already missing j and her family. But we will be back in a week. J's husband and I have done some talking on our own and he has been alot more involved since the beginning. We have even packed...

I'm back Hey everyone. I think I have stayed away too long. I have felt myself stuggling a little bit lately and I know my relationships around me are picking up on it. Things have gone a little crazy for me lately. J and her family and my family have all become one big unit.We practically...

Less of a crutch Hey folks, Wow it has been awhile since I have been on here. I have found that I have used this site less and less because I know for a long time it was a huge crutch for me. It was all I had to hold on to and when all was lost and I was drowning this is where I came. In fact...

I have the same name for almost everything. Its my initials and birthday.

I appreciate all the comments but I would like to clarify something. Neither DH nor J have ever made me feel like there is something wrong with me. They have always welcome and accepted the fact that I am monogamous and still do. It is something I have felt myself because these are very...

This is a great conversation to go through. I have gone through alot of why is this happening conversations with both of them. But I haven't actually asked DH to answer those exact questions. We are on a good path right now but it might not be the worst idea to keep things going with them...

This here is actually a good thing. She is showing respect as your position in an already established relationship. She wants to give you your space to accept what is happening and give you the time you need. I am not saying take forever doing that. But they know this is painful for you and this...

MG- If I have read through all the posts correctly then Z is sage's SO, not the secondary. And W is the secondary not sage's SO. Did I get that right Sage? Two I know it is difficult not to step in and help their relationship. When DH and J have had difficulties communicating it has been very...

Quick addition I just wanted to add that while I respect polys and know that many of them are on here learning about themselves we monos are doing the same. It can be easy to become lost when some of the most important people in your life are poly. I have often wondered if there was something...

While this has been discussed between my DH and myself it is something I am simply not interested in. Since the day I met my husband when I was 16 years old I have just not been interested in anyone else, period. I know that is hard to believe. Oh I have looked or gawked at a good looking guy...