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thank you for your words :) i will consider them. I plan to seek more information on being poly before i join into any more forums with so little knowledge. But, I will no longer be active in these particular forums (on this site). If i could delete this profile I would. But, apparently...

i will no longer be active in the forums. Do not email me or contact me in any way. If i could delete this profile I would. But, apparently, deletion of a profile is not possible....which makes no sense. Have good happy lives people. Try not to judge the new people so much. Everyone was new...

i got a notification in my email about a reply to this...it even showed me what it said...but its not here on the actual thread to read to the post not showing up...forgive my vague wording that offended anyone. i was making a summary of a to do list...it was not meant to make the lady sound...

i want to delete my account as well

thank you KM, reading your thread is both informative and helpful. My husband is general the silent type when it comes to the "why" and deep stuff. He will say he loves me and when i ask why to be playful he replies "because your awesome". LOL! I love him but sweety i want details lol. However...

well it appears my friend with experience told me something completely different about a unicorn. she implied the woman had feelings for both the husband and spouse and could even so much as move with them if they were stationed across state...she said nothing about emotionless...therefor, we...

16 really? ... i can appreciate your view so long as you realize i am 33 years old and i wasnt sexting. i didnt have sex with anyone over text or otherwise. she wanted proof that we werent sending her pics of some random couple i found on facebook. Her theory was nudes arent allowed on facebook...

i dont understand...whats the difference between finding a real person and a unicorn? unicorns are real people

well, i havent even begun to look for anyone else now. When i look through pictures on other polyamore websites, most of the women are so pretty. Any unicorn would have their hand pick of pretty women to choose from. And, most women aren't even the slightest overweight, which I am. It's like...

it has been over 3 days now since we last heard from her, i do not expect to. and even if we did hear from her now i wouldnt go in with a trust i had before. most people go into relationships where u have to earn trust. i typically give people trust until they give me a reason not to...then its...

ok.....i have mentioned quite a few times, including my user name, that i am new to this. I have never done this before. I do not know what to expect. The date to meet was set a few days before she asked for the picture. So even tho i was insecure about it i sent what she asked for. it's not...

i dont know how to delete threads.... i dont know what to say...all i know is i really liked her and when she requested the pictures i didnt wanna say no at the risk of her deciding not to meet us and changing her mind. i thought i was securing with her that both of us were real. i dont...

thank you! i am hoping thats all it was...i am insecure about my body as it is. if it werent for the pics she asked for my feelings wouldnt be so hurt

we are new to this still...but i learned real fast not to send nudes when asked :(

from my standpoint....the girl went completely silent after convincing me to send nudes of me with my husband. that is very disrespectful.

wouldnt it more more respectful of her to let us know if she is okay and a heads up for breaking the date instead of going completely silent on us? It's not too much to ask for. She can have her emergency and be respectful to our feelings.

i hate getting to know someone for over a week thru emails and texts...only for them to just blow me off without so much as a reason, no goodbye, nothing. they just dropped off the face of the earth and will not reply to anything... granted i havent really sent her much in the last 24 hours, i...

personally, for me, i would feel insulted if he fell in love with someone he didnt even know that well and that would mean he gave his heart out way too easily...and more likely to get hurt.

well it would be like we meet someone, see if theres anything in common including chemistry, have her std checked, etc. its not like just jumping in bed with someone you dont know. its a "friends with benefits" type thing. But everyone calls this swingning...not poly...that why i was wanting...

has anyone moved into the poly lifestyle by starting out as a soft swing style relationship? i am thinking about going swing first to see how comfortable we really are with the whole aspect of sex with other people...then go from there. Because falling in love with other people will lead to sex