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Alrighty, I guess I was mistakenly projecting a bit of my own situation onto yours; hence the confusion. I also find myself in a relationship getting less sex than I would like, and for me, sex with random other people would be quite satisfying. This may be one of the general differences between...

I'd say there are two separate issues going on here. 1. I'm not sure polyamory is really what you need in this situation. To be a bit blunt, you need a good dicking. : P You're focusing on this hot neighbor because he seems accessible, but if your husband gave you to the go-ahead to explore...

I'm hoping to avoid broaching it with either of them for a while. GF and I have been through a lot of annoying relationship discussions recently (on different, but related, issues) and I don't think now is the time to hassle her with this new complication. Funnily enough, the other lady in the...

Thanks much for the responses (and the article)! I really appreciate you taking the time to think about these funny old issues of mine. I disagree slightly with one of your premises though. In particular, I think it is possible to maintain a friends with benefits relationship without emotional...

I looked around at some of the advice threads in the "Links to Other Threads Worth Reading" sticky, but most of them dealt with things like, "I'm Poly and I'm Dating a Mono!" or "I'm poly and I can't find a bicycle built for four!" In summary, I didn't see much advice for people still trying to...

I definitely want to second the use of OKCupid. If you're feeling nervous or hesitant, you can just put up a profile stating exactly what you want out of the site: dating, relationships, good friends, etc., and then you sift through the responses. My experience with it is limited, since we've...

Hello all, I'm admittedly extremely new to the poly universe. I'm a 27-year-old, largely straight, cisgender male from the NYC area, and I'm in a relationship that has lasted for about 7.5 years so far. In other words, we were practically children when we met, and so our experience in dating...