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    Scared, Intimidated and Feeling Very Inadequate

    Cindy has stayed the last three nights and even joined me when we had "church" this morning. Davison and Ray have both brought up that Cindy should move in with us. I admit we have the room. And Cindy is currently sleeping on her sister's couch. Davison brought up to Cindy that we have the room...
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    Scared, Intimidated and Feeling Very Inadequate

    Last night Cindy called and asked me if we could go out and have dinner and talk. So, I said okay. She explained to me that she has no intention of taking my men from me. She did tell me that spending the night with us was one of the best nights of her life. Cindy told me that the sex she'd had...
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    Scared, Intimidated and Feeling Very Inadequate

    Okay. So, a lot has happened in a short amount of time. Here at home, with me, Davison and Ray, we have been doing really well. We went to the swinger motel last night, just to use the pool pass. The pool pass gives you access to the pool, two hot tubs and a big play area. Me, Davison and Ray...
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    How I View Sex

    When we (Me, Davison and Ray) last saw Margaret, she told us that she wanted to meet and talk with my son, my daughter and Ray's oldest son. She also would like to talk with Ray's daughter, his youngest son and his ex-wife. Margaret said that she felt that what we did affected everyone else, and...
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    How I View Sex

    I have had to deal with this for a long time, now. Ray will not make the first move. I always have to be the aggressor. I don't mind making the first move once in a while. And I like it when other men make the first move. With some men, Ray included, I like sex to last a while, but not too long...
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    What did I do wrong? Or did I?

    I'm sure the majority of the reporting on the web my be fantasy. We found that there was chaffing, and it became uncomfortable for Ray to wear. Yes, it did come with two keys, the flushing of the one was more a mental fun time for me. The use of the chastity device was more to add to our fun...
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    What did I do wrong? Or did I?

    (Part 3) Margaret asked Ray when the last time was that Ray did something just for him. Ray said he wasn't sure. Margaret asked Ray what activity made him the happiest wen he was doing it. Ray thought for a moment then told Margaret that what he liked to do most, and what made him happiest...
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    What did I do wrong? Or did I?

    (Conitued) David told my daughter that he could hear the two men and the woman, especially the woman, and that he also heard the other man telling Ray that he was going to cum. And a couple minutes later, David heard Ray thanking the other man. David told my daughter that the woman the other...
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    What did I do wrong? Or did I?

    I thank you. Maybe some of my long post can/should be moved to my blog, but with this post I am asking for help. Ray and I went to see our therapist again today. Margaret, our therapist, asked me and Ray how our week had been. I told Margaret about me and Scott and about me and Tom and about...
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    What did I do wrong? Or did I?

    To be honest, I like it when people are candid. And I appreciate humor. I guess where I am having the most difficulty is knowing what is right to post where. If posting to a blog rather than to this thread is what is appropriate, then I can/will do that instead. I admit that I may not be up on...
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    What did I do wrong? Or did I?

    Well, while you were putting cantaloupe juice in your coffee, an old friend and lover called me today. Stewart called me and asked me if I was home. I said I was. Stewart told me that he and a co-worker had some down time and he was wondering if I might be interested in playing around a little...
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    What did I do wrong? Or did I?

    Maybe some day I can take a look at that arrow. :) Maybe we can straighten it out a little. :)
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    What did I do wrong? Or did I?

    I know that Ray LOVES my kinky side. We are trying our best to communicate better, and follow our therapist's advice. And I don't remember Margaret ever telling us not to be kinky. From what I have heard from those who have known Margaret for some time, Margaret gets into her own kinks. And...
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    What did I do wrong? Or did I?

    So, when did kinky become the topic? And why be less kinky? Just asking?
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    What did I do wrong? Or did I?

    And isn't Vanilla in the Philippines?
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    What did I do wrong? Or did I?

    From what I have read of your postings, you are probably the most straight arrow, vanilla guy I have read yet.
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    What did I do wrong? Or did I?

    The closest I came was telling her that if Ray asked me to have sex with other men, that I would do it, because I love him and want to please him. I am not sure I ever will tell her about me and other men, but if she ever gives in and does it, maybe I will.
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    What did I do wrong? Or did I?

    Last night I had a friend over for dinner and to play pool with us. I have known Maria for about 15 years. We recently became friends again after not being friends for about 5 years. The reason she ended our friendship 5 years ago was because Ray had brought up that he wanted to know what breast...
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    What did I do wrong? Or did I?

    When Ray got home yesterday, he asked how my day had been. I told him that after Scott left that Tom had come over to the house. I told Ray that Tom wanted to expand my disk space in my hard drive. Ray asked if that was an innuendo, I said yes. Ray asked me what Tom had to say. I told Ray that...
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