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Agree totally. Effective, honest communication is the number one skill. Nothing happens without that.

Just a question or two here to change the perspective and give you a mor objective view. Why not a second husband? What does this “perfect third” look like to your wife? It really does sound like you’re building a box and trying to find someone that fits. I find that meeting people...

U Ultomately? I would like a much higher level of honest, open communication. I would like for both Aspen and I to have the ability to love each other fully. To care for each other in such a way that if other relationships foster growth and happiness, we make room for them. I think Aspen has...

So, not my first rodeo but I have chosen monogamy for my last two relationships. Sadly one ended because we just weren’t a good match. The current one involves someone totally foreign to poly relationships. The details aren’t important but she cheated. Now, before we get to the “it’ll never...

Does the term “squish” apply here? Over the years I have had a couple really great never physical relationships with people I love deeply. There was no sexually charged physical contact. Ever. But there was genuine love and affection and deep bonds. I think this concept is entirely probable for...

I feel your pain too. I have a similar situation but she has never really acknowledged the feelings until recently. I'd be happy just to snuggle on the couch watching a movie but she "can't do that". We've talked about it and she's one of those that can't be that close physically without wanting...

Just starting down this road (officially) myself so its valuable info to have..... Here is what I would lean towards should I ever post an ad.... (not necessarily worded like this... just throwing out ideas of what we are looking for so you get the idea.) Mono wife/nonsexual poly husband in...

very cool!!! I'm, well we actually, are really new to this. Just talking about it in fact and only somewhat practicing. I have girls that I date, but so far no sex. anyway... What we are thinking would work for us is a quad. Two couples that are connected on many different levels. Sort of...

New to this idea entirely..... but have been sort of practicing for years. 6 months ago I moved out of my house. My wife and I are very different people and there was just no spark. No chemistry.... in fact, I doubted it was ever there. Fast forward to about two weeks ago.... Her child hood...