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    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    2:16 p.m., Thursday the 28th The cleaning lady is here today ("Jill"). She does a really good job, so I look forward to her service. Eddie has been barking more than usual. Last night SB (and the dogs) (and the rats) (and the gerbil) had Barn Hunt practice, and it was after 9:00 p.m. when she...
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    how to deal with fluctuating affection from an anxious attachment style

    Hello ArnsonVomDach, It sounds like you will have to make a conscious effort to be more affectionate (especially verbally affectionate) when you feel less "threatened" by her other partner/s (your metamour/s). Do keep her updated on your anxious attachment style and the efforts you are making...
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    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    2:27 p.m., Wednesday the 27th We just had odds and ends for dinner last night, I had a can of split pea soup (Chunky). SB did also make BLT's for us. The relatives said their goodbyes to us, although the mom/stepfather might visit us again during their return trip in a few days or so. SB had...
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    Opening up my marriage, trying to avoid pitfalls

    Greetings Bunbun11, Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc. It is really good to hear that you and your husband have been having talks, improving your sexual relationship, and exploring the concept of open/poly. Opening your marriage is a good direction, just take it slow...
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    My wife is poly and I love it

    It's encouraging that Del5158 was so open and understanding of his wife having other partners. Hopefully this will encourage other people who come across this thread.
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    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    3:22 p.m., Tuesday the 26th The aunt/uncle don't seem to be around today, but the mom/stepfather are still around. Last night we had takeout (Chinese -- SB's stepfather was okay with sweet/sour chicken), I don't know what the plan is for tonight. Last night I had vegetable chow mein. At this...
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    poly living arrangements

    Hi mountaingirl, I live in one house with my partner (Snowbunny) and my metamour (Brother-Husband). I have my own bedroom, with an attached bath (shower). I would say we have a kitchen table V, we all eat dinner together, and talk together about how things are between us, and what needs to be...
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    Hello coosto, Stereotypes have changed a lot since the Middle Ages, especially with regard to the royal class, when marriage was a totally political action, if someone was old "enough," that was good enough for marriage. Age is a much more serious consideration in this day and age, than it was...
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    Am I jealous or envious

    Hello Rthat69, Let's see what Wiktionary has to say. jealous 1. Suspecting rivalry in love; troubled by worries that one might have been replaced in someone's affections; suspicious of a lover's or spouse's fidelity. (from 13th c.) 2. Protective; zealously guarding; careful in the protection of...
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    New to this, in the UK

    Greetings polysomethingsomething, Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc. There are two prominent styles of polyamory, one is called parallel poly, the other is called kitchen table poly. It sounds like you have been advised to do kitchen table, that is to make friends with...
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    How to show commitment to the non spouse partner

    That's really sweet of her. It sounds like your bond with her is growing.
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    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    11:40 a.m., Monday the 25th Dinner Saturday night was Chinese takeout (via Grubhub, I think). I had egg foo young, can't remember what Brother-Husband and Snowbunny had, we each had an eggroll as an appetizer. Of course we each had a fortune cookie for dessert. My fortune was, something like...
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    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    4:35 p.m., Saturday the 23rd SB and Ginger just got back from Barn Hunt Trial a few minutes ago. BH should get home from work any minute now. Dinner last night was takeout from Flying Star. I got an egg salad sandwich (by far my favorite from there), and coleslaw. For the next few days, some...
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    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    4:44 p.m., Friday the 22nd Last night we just had pasta/meatballs (turkey meatballs I think) for dinner -- not terrible, but not what I'd write home about. Today, the dogs had Barn Hunt Trial in Corrales, I believe. Eddie did so-so, and Ginger jumped on a bale and ran through a tunnel, but...
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    Hello poly456, Try one or more of the following google searches: Delaware polyamory Dover polyamory Wilmington polyamory Philadelphia polyamory Washington DC polyamory Your goal is to find a local poly group near you that gets together on a regular basis (say once a month). I suppose Philly...
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    Re-entering the poly world with an ex

    Hi sylvie, Thanks for updating us. I am excited for you that you are dating your ex, even though it sounds like ex's other partner (your metamour) doesn't like it. Your ex should have been more transparent and forthright with his other partner from the beginning. He has made the mess, and it's...
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    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    4:04 p.m., Thursday the 21st We had takeout from Krung Thai. Really good. The forum isn't very busy today. Maybe I will get caught up on things.
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    Same-Sex Couple Dipping Our Toes in Poly

    It sounds like you're making progress, a little at a time. That's the best way to do it, in my opinion. So you can make sure you do every little part of it right.
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    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    4:08 p.m., Wednesday the 20th Yesterday we had some more chicken chili (I think SB threw the rest out), and some tacos (with bowl-shaped tortillas). I thought it was pretty good. I don't know what we're having tonight.
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    Same-Sex Couple Dipping Our Toes in Poly

    Hello Liam, It kind of sounds like the two of you are thinking about forming a mono/poly relationship, where you are the mono and he is the poly. Many mono/poly relationships have succeeded, but it takes a lot of communication and compromise. I suggest moving ahead in your own situation, but...