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I mean folks are really nice on here and kind to talk to, but I am so thankful to my therapist, I am very thankful that she is poly versed, she helped me work through a lifetime of insecurity and self worth issues and being ok living in a way that is good for me. See if your therapist will read...

Do you have a therapist? @GalaGirl posted a wonderful link to a resource that contained links to poly friendly therapists. I just used it to find someone for my husband.

I am new to this forum, not new to poly, but I think Gala Girl has amazing points. It wouldn't be fair of you to expect him to leave his other partners to be with you, especially since thats not who he was when you met and you agreed to be with him under the terms he and his other partner had...

I am the only relationship he's ever had, and yes, yes, he has been like this since I have known him. We're married 21 years now. I am sure it is that he's lonely, but I am not really juggling anyone. The girlfriend is long distance; we see each other in person maybe 3 times a year. And she...

Hey Kevin thank you, yes it has been very helpful, especially @GalaGirl link to poly friendly therapists, I think I have one for him and one for us from that resource which is really exciting. I have had a steady therapist for 20 years and whileI have begged him to he never ever has. I kind of...

Thank you. I needed to hear that too. Ok it's late where I am at, hitting hay. Early morning meeting and gigs all weekend. Stay fabulous. I appreciate you and @GalaGirl and @SEASONEDpolyAgain time and consideration. I was afraid to post and you have all been so kind.

shoot I don't know how this thing works yet, @Marcus I didn't finish what I replying to you, I meant to say I think he can be honest and vulnerable, and I appreciate your words on compatibility and respect and insecurity. tHose really hit home, thank you.

Thank you. I appreciate your insight. Yeah I can't allow him to control my other relationships. Or me in general. I love him dearly and I know he loves me , yeah, you're right, I shouldn't in hindsight encouraged that. I just love her so much, she's one of my best friends and I just wanted her...

Thank you so much. I appreciate your insight and the resource list.

Hi, I am new here and I don't know if I am using this site correctly, if I am not please let me know and I will fix the post or remove it. If anyone has any advice, though, I would really appreciate it. I am married 20 years to a man I love very much. However, he has sensory issues and if I...