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I have definitely learned that I am Monogamous / Monamorous 100%. I could never do what they do in their portion of the Vee, as Hinge and NP. No way, not for me. Glad it's possible and sustainable for some, but it would not be for me. Yes. . it is/ was "barely tolerable" to be the...

Who knows . . like I said, People make strange choices. The Hotwife fetish was never confirmed, and I did ask him directly about it and he denied. Later, Hinge asked him about it and "she said that he was" offended by the accusation. So who knows . . . was it his "dirty little secret"...

To sum up and wrap it all up for you that keep track of the Poly stats . . . It ends with another failure with lots of pain for everyone. Probably a tale as old as Poly Time . . . Couple way over estimates the strength and stability of their relationship and decides to open up to Poly. She's...

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It was AMAZING FUN TIME. I meet her at their place at 5. She and I eat dinner and leave to go to a concert at 5:40 . . it starts at 6. Metamour gets home right around 5:40, says Hi as Hinge and I are leaving. Metamour's other GF arrives for their dinner around 6 and then a romp (spare room)...

Ok.. option E) I'm conflating my observations into a Hotwife kink, and I could be wrong. He's just.a nice guy who is happy seeing his wife get so much loving attention and good feelings from me. TbT, this is what I'm hopeful for.... however, from what I'm told and can see, they have a...

Thanks GG, I did make that previous request and the conversation went fine.

Why not? Mostly, for just that reason . . What if she doesn't already know. Probably all my own paranoia . . but . . . What if . . . What if .. What if's are good because they help you to analyze and predict potential future outcomes. What if I ask, "Is this the Hotwife thing I read...

Well . . it is what it is. And my feelings are just those . . based on my perception of my reality. But I have come to terms that it can't/ won't be anything more than super close times when we are together, and feeling distanced when we are apart. Would "feeling distanced" be better for...

Is it possible to have the hotwife kink, and not know that it is called the "hotwife kink" ? I asked him to elaborate on his comment that "I was helping". He basically said that "she really likes you and you make her really happy, so that makes me happy". I dug deeper and asked, "happy, as...

Over the weekend, we are at a party, all three of us, and she's near me, holding my hand, rubbing my shoulders, kissing, dancing, and he's off in the distance watching and smiling. At times, I did feel a little bit like a prop being used on their play. At other times, I yuck it up and make the...

TBT, I'm a fun guy with not a lot of hang ups. If he or they said it is his kink.. I'd voluntarily be louder, scream her name, etc. I have a touch of exhibitionist in me, so WTF. I don't think I really care about what he is thinking about or masturbating , while she and I are going at it...

My understanding is compersion is about enjoying seeing your wife in love and being loved in a polyAMOROUS way. Hotwifing is enjoying knowing, hearing , seeing (cuckhold) the wife having sex and physical stuff. Since he was encouraged her to dance, kiss, touch and explore way before anyone...

She says . . . he does (or at least initially did) ask about the sexy details after our dates, but she does not tell TMI with any details beyond generic "we had sex". I have not discussed with her to confirm, but all the evidence is there from what I've seen and been told by her and it seems...

I just now am figuring it out. I don't know what he knows or knew all along from the start but didn't tell me . . . I don't know if SHE knows or knew all along from the start but didn't tell me. Should I say something to her? Why would it be a deal breaker for me? I'm not judgey of...

This is what I was at the start of this venture, and I guess that I'm realizing that not much has changed in my comfort levels since. This is what I'm doing while soul searching and continuing to learn from experienced folks such as yourselves. Agree.

Maybe. But from what I'm told, it's her that occasionally get the "what the hell am I doing" thoughts in her head and it's him that talks her off the cliff as he continues to support and encourage her to explore with me. More to the story . . or perhaps I mentioned it above . . . He was...

These 2 are difficult for me, yes. We've discussed both. She knows I'm interested in her, and not her #1. When she's telling me stories about their good times together, it makes me feel like an outsider. Of course, I am an outsider, so those feelings are correct. Also, hearing about...

What are some of the mistakes that frequently happen when learning how to be a good hinge.

I think it's all coming down to this. . . . and the frustrating part is that FWB/ Hinge (who is amazing and can stir magical feelings within me with a flirty glance) can not also be that steady GF. Which is it ? It's both .. we communicate thoughts and ideas well, but do so from the...