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2 weeks turned out in a month.. The psychologist I tried to approach says (3 weeks later) that they can't help the complicatedness of my case. Now my doctor has directed me to another institution. So.. We wait. And there are so much more things in my head that I need to work on. I still cannot cope.

@kdt26417 Good morning! He just messaged me that I'm still his number one, so that's wonderful. I have contacted my doctor and will be contacted by a psychologist within 2 weeks. So will take this and other trauma's with me and see how far I get with this. The thing is that the rational part of...

Besides my topic: Thank you all so much for these nice replies. It is really helpful that people are trying to understand my situation and not only judging because I am not poly. <3

@kdt26417 He is absolutely fine with me exploring my side of being poly! He encourages it. I am bisexual and the only positive thing I see about it, is that I am able to explore my bisexual side a bit more. Except my headspace is not there. I (for now)cannot see myself doing things with someone...

He did not have sex with others in our marriage yet. I wanted swinging to be something that we do when we are together, not separate. Friends with benefits is the thing he calls it. I don't think (hope) that love is involved. He did this with his ex too, she was ok with everything. When his...

Every time we have spoken about this, I tend to make snarky comments. Because I am hurt. @SEASONEDpolyAgain how do I do that? As I previously stated, I am autistic and everything in my mind is very black and white. Also change is super scary. Het tells me it will not be about love, just being...

I have just posted a thread in the correct category! Thanks for reacting so fast!

Note: I have autism and ADHD. My husband told me 4 weeks ago that he wanted to explore other people (1 person now in particular). I am still dealing with how to process that. With two weeks of almost no food, sleep or selfcare, we have been arguing, crying and screaming at each other every...

Good morning, Here to introduce myself! 34, from the Netherlands and married since 1 year. My husband told me 4 weeks ago he wants to explore other people (1 person now in particular) and I am still dealing with how to process that. Hopefully here I can find some common ground or tips on how...