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    What Should We Call the Descendants of Southern-States Slaves? etc.

    Their race is entirely irrelevant on how I treat them, yes. They are treated no different then every other person in my life. How they see themselves is totally different. There is nothing wrong with being proud of your race or heritage. An example of this is that my heritage is Scottish, which...
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    What Should We Call the Descendants of Southern-States Slaves? etc.

    I generally just call them people. Although we may look different. Take away the skin and we are all the same. I really feel the longer people keep debating on what to call one race or another we are just perpetuating racism. We are all people. Just my .02
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    Poll (and feelings) about Wildlife

    As a avid outdoors man I believe while in some parts of the world we are doing enough, in others we are not. As a hunter I am very concerned about conservation and take a active part in protecting the wild. I am not a trophy hunter by any means, I just prefer wild game. It is healthier and...
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    Your most recent OKC messages. post em here!

    We just created a account at OKC, within minutes we had a message from a local telling us about a FB group for local poly people. What a great first message.
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    Mono wiring vs. poly wiring

    No apologies needed. I should have been more clear. Great that you had fun camping, not so great about getting sick and a leaky tent.
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    Mono wiring vs. poly wiring

    It is sad that anyone has to defend themselves or even feel the need to. Your personal feelings and beliefs are yours. :) Being pretty new to this I am expressing my personal observations. Quite obviously I am wrong when it comes to some things, but I'm learning. Youarehere, I am sorry, let...
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    Mono wiring vs. poly wiring

    Personally, I don't believe it's a matter of being wired. In my belief its more a matter of social conditioning and the ability or inability to break away from the social norm.
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    Division in the poly community

    So much information and opinions here. A great read all the way through. I am going to try and summarize a few things here, please feel free to correct me if I have missed the mark. There seems to be different camps or schools of thought on the subject of poly and what is or is not poly. It...
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    sorry dude

    Anger is a natural emotion. Some have lots longer fuses then others. Having "fights" is going to happen in any relationship. It's healthy. S and I do not argue often but when we do look out. LOL. Glad that you see that the other side of the fence is the same color green.
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    Word Association Game!

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    Quotes...plagarism encouraged!!

    Forgiveness is a attribute of the strong, for the weak can not forgive. Ghandi
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    and so...

    Awesome into. Not weird at all. Was a great read with many laughs.
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    Canada anyone?

    Alberta here.
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    What is the line between being selfish and communicating your needs?

    Selfish should not even come into the equation. Communication is key at all times. Even if you feel that perhaps you are being over the top and selfish, you still need to communicate that, and have a discussion with your partner about it. As long as you are open to the fact that perhaps you are...
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    I'm confused, and I need help (-.-).

    I am with Nancy on this one, something does not seem right.
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    Our Journey

    Where to start... Once upon a time... no, that does not work. Just the facts then: We are a very happy couple in our early 30's who have been together for many years, we have children together and are a happy family. Both of us are professionals, I am a oilfield worker (supervisor) and she...
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    Why and how did you get into poly?

    Our first "real" encourage terms with poly was with friends of ours. We have known them for a long time, and always knew she was bi. Originally we thought they only just played with other females but found out in discussion that they were in fact looking for a full time gf for a poly...
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    Describe your sex life with a movie title

    Working on the road as I do, "The Day After Tomorrow" fits the bill as its often a impatient waiting game to get home.
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    New from Edmonton Alberta

    Hi everyone. We are a couple with three children. A short while ago one of us (the female one) had her first bi-sexual experience. This is something that has been a long time in coming and finally happened. Many things had to be overcome for this to happen, we are happy it did though. After the...