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    Children and Polyamory: Merged Threads, General Discussion

    Children Poly and Kids- step, biological, adopted, grown kids, little kids, I just have two simple questions. How have you handled it and what has worked well? What really, really didn't work well, either? We've got a complicated situation and I think we've rolled with punches pretty well so...
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    Sleeping Arrangements and Beds: Merged Threads, General Discussion

    We're 5'9" and fragile, 5'10", 6'2" and built like the proverbial brick shit house, and can get along fine in one *orthopedic quality* California King. Though I have heard much applause over at the poly forum on Reddit regarding the two Queens stuck together version. I occasionally claim I...
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    Poly Surprises?

    I'm going to be rather shy in that department. Both my guys are working in fields that being poly would cost them their careers- and the paychecks that make our household go- so prudence is the better part of valor for us. But thank you for being interested. :)
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    Poly Surprises?

    I guess I thought at some point the realities of everyday life would grind away that miraculous feel it has to it when you find your soul mate and then the two of you find somebody who fits into that like they were made for it. Nope. Still whacks me upside the head at the randomest moments...
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    New babies

    You don't ever bring a baby into a situation where the adults haven't fully stabilized. You shouldn't be having his babies until the two of you are comfortable in your poly. She shouldn't be having his babies *period* after a two month relationship. Babies need stability, and babies have to...