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    New to this, in the UK

    Hi everyone. I just wanted to circle back and thank those of you who replied to my post. The day of my original post was a really really low day and I succumbed to flu which kicked my ass for a few days. Since then I've been doing a lot of self work and communication with my wife and her gf...
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    New to this, in the UK

    https://www.kathylabriola.com/articles/are-you-in-poly-hell Oh my. This is exactly what I'm going through
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    New to this, in the UK

    No. Once she realised that her and her gf had mutual feelings is when we first had the chat about exploring polygamy
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    New to this, in the UK

    We haven't come out to family yet. Some friends know.
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    New to this, in the UK

    My doubt is that she will leave me. But this seems like a natural feeling for someone new to this. I need to work on opening my mind to the fact that her heart is big enough for 2
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    New to this, in the UK

    I did think this initially, but I think it would be a knee jerk reaction and not what we need. If the right person came along, I now know that I could take it further. But jumping into my own new relationship just to even things up feels like a silly move. I too have high standards.
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    New to this, in the UK

    It was swinging, so very casual and purely physical. Which probably explains why I'm struggling with this new dynamic. The gf has had a lot of shitty abusive relationships with men. She had kids with them too. Has had casual gf's before, I think this is her first 'proper relationship' with...
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    New to this, in the UK

    Thanks. Good advice and it's helped
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    New to this, in the UK

    Thanks for the response. She and her gf work together. When their relationship got flirty my wife checked in with me and we discussed it. We have dated other couples before. I knew she was pansexual when we got together. We have always talked about having more people join our relationship. This...
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    New to this, in the UK

    Hey! My wife and I have been together for 20 years and have recently formalised becoming polyamorous. We're in the UK. I'm getting my head around this new way of living, listening to podcasts, etc. My wife has recently started dating a female friend, so I'm going through what I think is the...
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    Hi. My wife and I have been together for 20 years and have recently formalised becoming polyamorous. We're in the UK. I'm getting my head around this new way of living, listening to podcasts, etc. My wife has recently started dating a female friend, so I'm going through what I think is the...
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