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    Ideas for intimacy in a Poly relationship where the nesting partner is not sexual.

    Thank you Magdlyn. I appreciate the honest feedback. Love is a funny thing. I still love her. My personal therapist has said i've chosen an unhealthy hard path instead of the healthy hard path as you also suggested. Again, thank you for your feedback. I really do appreciate it/you.
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    Ideas for intimacy in a Poly relationship where the nesting partner is not sexual.

    Yes, we sought couples therapy 5 years ago but the therapist said she had to deal with her trauma so that's what's happened for 5 years. There has been no other priority. It's too late to not go poly. I appreciate hearing of your experiences. I think it's just that the change is difficult...
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    Ideas for intimacy in a Poly relationship where the nesting partner is not sexual.

    Thank you for the welcome. We've been together just over 17 years. She doesn't express much appreciation for me unless i convey that i need some sort of affirmation. She has acknowledged that she isn't good at that. She is interested in making poly work for us, though. I did feel special for...
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    Ideas for intimacy in a Poly relationship where the nesting partner is not sexual.

    Thank you Tinwen, It's all sort of an uncertain future as she explores her own wants/needs. I'm just trying to remain relevant. She does seem to love most things about me and we do have great times together. I don't think anything can be revived romantically. But I don't know for sure. I...
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    Ideas for intimacy in a Poly relationship where the nesting partner is not sexual.

    Thank you Openbook. She is hesitant to talk about future plans because she is exploring her sexuality and doesn't want to over promise. I will check out Annie Undone. I appreciate your suggestions. Jon
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    Ideas for intimacy in a Poly relationship where the nesting partner is not sexual.

    Thank you Kevin, We do hug and I give her frequent back rubs. I appreciate the romantic movie idea. She still loves me, just not in a sexual way. Thank you again,, Jon
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    Ideas for intimacy in a Poly relationship where the nesting partner is not sexual.

    Hi, My partner and I recently opened our relationship to poly. She has gone on a couple of dates, which I have encouraged. I really want her to be happy. She is no longer interested in me sexually, which isn't a big change since we hadn't been very sexual in several years due to other...
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