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    can anyone give a little advice?

    I WISH he did do that. Though I had notice his crush on her, I thought that he'd at least talk to me about it so we could have a in depth discussion and come up with something that could work for both of us. I have been doing a lot of research and have relayed information to him whether it be...
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    can anyone give a little advice?

    Thank you. I'm feeling better, but I am having the flip flop of emotions, which I know is normal. I'm grateful they are both fine with the compromises and they both just want me to be happy. I'm learning pda in front of me is a no go, I should've figured that out sooner because I've always been...
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    can anyone give a little advice?

    I'm only asking for time because it's barely been a month since the initial conversation opening up our relationship, in which 2 weeks later, he asked her to be his partner. I'm very much aware that I cannot have all of the time in the world, I just need the time to break everything down into...
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    can anyone give a little advice?

    Yeah, I'm seeing that it isn't very simple. I have days where I'm ok, and days where I'm not so ok. I believe I will with time though, as I have done a lot of thinking about how I feel about him dating other people and came to a realization that it's not as bad as it sounds (it means I get more...
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    can anyone give a little advice?

    I didn't prepare well to be honest. It was always there in the back of my mind and I had thought of it from time to time, but I thought he would ask me about how I feel about him dating other people before he even initiated anything. My expectation wasn't to have him date her because of the...
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    can anyone give a little advice?

    In a way I'm happy but still uncomfortable that it's my friend he's interested in just because I know these situations can be messy. All 3 of us talked together and she's fine with waiting because she is processing this as well and trying to sort out what she wants. He and I also have talked and...
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    A struggling Mono

    Thank you for the recommendation, I'm going to give it a read after I finish "Polysecure" As to your questions, yes I've heard of poly before and I didn't think that I would be able to handle being in a relationship like that. I don't feel it's immoral or impractical, just a different way of...
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    can anyone give a little advice?

    I had a feeling it's the same with her. I usually don't show pda in front of people because I feel it would make some people uncomfortable. I want us all to be comfortable and happy, even when we're all together. I think you have to reflect a lot on how you feel and what you actually want in a...
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    can anyone give a little advice?

    Hello! This one might be a long one I have been in a monogamous relationship with a poly man for almost 4 years. Just 3 weeks ago he asked about opening up our relationship, which I knew would eventually happen because in the very beginning of our journey, he told me he was poly though he never...
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    A struggling Mono

    HI! Im a 34 year old mono female in a 3 year (almost 4) relationship with a 32 year old poly man. Just 3 weeks ago, he started the discussion on us opening the relationship. I can't say that I'm 100% on board with this, however, I do not want him to suppress and not be who he actually is. I'm...
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