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    What have I gotten myself into?

    Ever since my relationship with her ended, there has been something missing. I wish....... I don't even know where to start again. How do I start again? There aren't many like minded people in my world. People around here are afraid of this kind of love. Maybe they should be. I wish I...
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    Advice on dual marriage?

    Well, it us uncharted territory, so be creative. Bon Chance!
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    Word Association Game!

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    Need some guidance - sleeping arrangements

    I can't figure out why she is still there. I would be hurting, terribly so. Doesn't seem like a V to me. More like a Mono with this X that hasn't left yet. (no offense to her). I am sorry that you were brought into this situation. It really leaves you in a bad position. It puts her in bad...
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    What have I gotten myself into?

    Thanks guys! DH, I knew that must have missed some of what I had posted early on,;) So I simply restated it. I know you are right about the guilt thing, and I am working on it. Especially because I know that even though I don't openly express it around the house doesn't mean son can't...
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    Screwed up text size

    Oops! i just figured it out. YAY!!!
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    Screwed up text size

    I find this an appropriate time to ask my dumb ass question. How do you get it post the actual comment you are responding to right inside of the reply? :)
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    Hello

    Hello, welcome.
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    What have I gotten myself into?

    My first concern was for his welfare and his emotions. It has been 10 weeks since it all came down and it was only recently that started to put energy into thinking about my own loss and my own poly future.
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    What have I gotten myself into?

    I do realize as a mother that I need to help him find resources to work this out. I feel terribly guilty for bringing this woman into my life, and my son's life. I keep telling myself that with all of the love that I get from hubby and my boys, why did I need to bring anyone else into my...
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    Confusing New Situation

    It makes a lot of sense. You are saying now the shoe is on the other foot and she won't give in to how uncomfortable it is because she would then have to admit that you shouldn't have to wear it either.
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    What have I gotten myself into?

    Oh yes dinged, I have thought about that many times. For instance, if she had a child, and hubby had done something like that to her kid, she probably would have called the police immediately. Hubby would be considered a disgusting pervert by all. I am afraid of the counseling thing, because...
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    What have I gotten myself into?

    In our state the age of consent law has a "Romeo and Juliet" clause. So that a person who is Senior in high school is not charged with statuatory rape if he is dating someone who is a Sophmore etc.
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    What have I gotten myself into?

    Annabelle your words a very comforting. Thank you. I keep telling myself that while I don't the "normal" boundaries in my marriage it doesn't mean that I have no boundaries. What consenting adults do is one thing. What she did is completely different. When I saw the anger and rage he had...
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    What have I gotten myself into?

    It is a very big deal. Yes, he has been aware of our relationship for a while. I am sure he feels ashamed. But, and maybe I am naive, I don't blame him for this. He had actually come to me a few times and told me that he didn't like her, that she was causing to much drama and he didn't want...
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    What have I gotten myself into?

    Well, I had a suspicion. She had started tickling him and rough housing with him. I asked her what the nature of the relationship with my son was. She smiled and said, "Oh please don't worry about anything like that. He reminds me of my little brother and I miss my family [her hometown is...
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    What have I gotten myself into?

    I am concerned about saying too much on a public forum on the internet. Let's just say that what she did is considered a crime. My son is 16.
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    Confusing New Situation

    Is possible that Jill doesn't want you and Adam to be so close to each other. Maybe she is trying to tell you that she is not OK with it.
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    What have I gotten myself into?

    I always assumed this relationship wouldn't be the same forever. I knew that eventually she would move on. But I also believed that it wouldn't be the end, it would just be different. I thought that we would always love each other and be a part of each others lives. I imagined being a part of...
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    What have I gotten myself into?

    My Dad's Voice I have been having a hard time being poly lately. I remember longing for it, I remember embracing it. I recently broke up with my girlfriend (about 10 weeks ago. I had to stop loving her. She turned out to be someone who lacked some necessary boundaries. My children were...
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