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    Hi Bob, Thanks for your message! You might have read in my thread things have cheered up a...

    Hi Bob, Thanks for your message! You might have read in my thread things have cheered up a little. I'm not sure I'll ever have an mfm (and my husband hates sports ;) ) but I find it really interesting what you write and how open you are about it. I haven't met more than person in RL who has any...
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    He slept with someone before we've really started having a poly relationship

    Cheers! Looks like I'm gonna do a lot of reading tomorrow.
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    He slept with someone before we've really started having a poly relationship

    Thanks, GalaGirl, for that link - it was very helpful to read, also to my husband. He's been doing a lot of thinking and reading ("More Than Two") the last two days and has a lot more understanding already. We have talked a lot (and not just talked..) and have grown together a lot - it's strange...
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    He slept with someone before we've really started having a poly relationship

    Thanks for all your responses so far. I've had the whole day to think, to talk things over with a friend who's had open relationships etc. And decided to clear things with my husband first, before I go and spend a few days with someone I would probably end up in bed with. @TheWind: He didn't...
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    Hello from Germany

    Hey Kevin, Thanks for the welcome. I have seen the other responses and have got time to reply over there now. It's been a long and eye-opening day :) Seems like there's a lot to learn. I'm glad I found this place.
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    He slept with someone before we've really started having a poly relationship

    Thanks for your reply, LillyFM. I'd nearly started thinking I'm not allowed to feel that way now, since I was the one who wanted to open the relationship, after all. Yes, they were safe, at least that he didn't forget about..
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    He slept with someone before we've really started having a poly relationship

    Now that I slept on it for a night it feels even worse for me. I've come to the conclusion that I'd probably feel just the same if he'd slept with someone without us two having had this conversation on a more open relationship back then. If I'd known he was going to hook up with that person...
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    He slept with someone before we've really started having a poly relationship

    Hello there, I need someone to talk to. My husband and I were just opening up on the possibility of a poly relationship. In August I talked to him about it for the first time. He was surprised but not antipathetic with the idea. Primarily, I felt like I didn't want to commit myself to having a...
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    Hello from Germany

    Hello there, I'm 30, married (we've been together for 9 years), mother of two small children. A couple of months ago, I presented the idea of opening our relationship to others to my husband, I started reading "More than Two" and now that we have started our journey into this new field I feel...
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