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  1. GuardianNoodle

    Scheduled my first date!

    Well, I'm glad I didn't get my expectations too high. She deleted her account now and I have no way to contact her... Oh well, back to the drawing board, I guess...
  2. GuardianNoodle

    Scheduled my first date!

    Yeah, I'm not expecting for her to rush me home to get my clothes off, but it would be nice to go on a couple dates with her, maybe get a smooch or two...
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    Scheduled my first date!

    I hope we hit it off I want this lol
  4. GuardianNoodle

    Scheduled my first date!

    I'm a little excited. I've been hitting the dating apps for a while and not really having too much success. I had a few matches, but none of them really went anywhere. I posted a personal on the polyamoryr4r subreddit just for fun and I got one response! We've been chatting for a few days and...
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    Looking for poly events in Houston Texas

    I found one other group since my last post, northside polyam and kinky of Houston Their Facebook messenger groupchat is great
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    Safe love and STI testing

    Of course, sexual encounters are more than just penetration. There is a reason I used the word "slightly," since there are so many other parts to sex than just P in V, and the condom really only removes some of the sensation there.
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    Safe love and STI testing

    I'm not a huge fan of them myself, but I'd rather have slightly less enjoyable safe sex than no sex.
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    Safe love and STI testing

    Yep, you would think that the powers that be would want a healthy workforce, but apparently not...
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    Safe love and STI testing

    I had another conversation with her about it. We are renegotiating our condom rule, as, after much thought, I don’t think it’s fair to require condoms with everyone else. She is scheduling her test and I have also scheduled mine.
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    Safe love and STI testing

    For me, I only currently have one partner that I have sex with. My wife's other partner is experienced in poly and has several other partners, that I know of. He does use barriers with all of his partners, from what he has told me. It's not something I'm super-concerned about now, but I want to...
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    Safe love and STI testing

    This is something that has been on my mind the last couple of days. I haven't had an STI test since I was in highschool and was scheduling one now that my partner and I are no longer monogamous. How often are you getting tested? I have to go to the doctor every 90 days for an RX refill anyway...
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    Ground rules and discussion topics

    This is something we are already discussing. lol But it seemed like a good idea at the time. I'm still using condoms because I am not fixed, but am planning to get my tubes tied later this year.
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    Ground rules and discussion topics

    To be clear, I know that they are having sex, but not the details or number of encounters. That would obviously be invasive. I have met her other partner in person quite a few times and have had open discussions with him about what we are both comfortable with, as well.
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    Ground rules and discussion topics

    Things you may want to consider that I have brought up with my wife. How much notice do you need to be given for an event? I like to know at least a day in advance that they have plans and try to let her know if I'm doing something. Obviously, this is not always practical. We also have small...
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    Jealous looking in from the outside

    I think that it is totally fair to have concerns about how your metamours are treating your partner. They are someone you love and care about and you want to see them happy. On the other hand, it's not really fair to your partner for you to dictate who and how your partner dates, IMO. I have...
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    Question for those in a monogamous relationship when ENM was first floated as an idea

    Yeah. I was very clear with my partner when we started this that I was not looking to swing, for a triad, or threeways, because I had done my research and had concluded that it would not be the best for us.
  17. GuardianNoodle

    Male Houston, TX area

    I am a 33 year old male in the Houston Texas area, looking for women in the Houston or Austin areas that would like to chat and possibly do some 1 on 1 dates. I prefer to become friends first before any play. I am not currently looking to date a couple although not necessarily opposed to group...
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    Question for those in a monogamous relationship when ENM was first floated as an idea

    I am guessing since you are using "we" that you date as a couple. It's hard enough to find people that want to do a poly relationship with just me. I couldn't imagine trying to find someone who wants to be in a throuple in the wild. I lucked into my LD partner. I met her on VRChat and we just...
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    My ex approached me about being in a poly relationship with him after a year apart

    This whole situation is full of red flags, but this is probably the biggest one. Not being able to take no for an answer is not great for a monogamous relationship, but even worse when you start bringing multiple people into into it.
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    Question for those in a monogamous relationship when ENM was first floated as an idea

    Yeah, its def like dating all over again. It's weird, I didn't realize I missed the butterflies in my stomach feeling till I suddenly got it back for the first time in years, and now I can talk about it with my best friend, who also happens to be my wife.
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