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    I don't want to stop myself...

    Sometimes you just need to get it out and gush a bit. ;-) Sounds like you know what you'redoing and need to do. Obviously communication is key and making sure everyone is comfortable is most important. But enjoy your swoony feelings! And enjoy your the company of these friends and this fella's...
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    What to do when sexual needs are not met?

    In addition to low sex drive, low testosterone can cause depression/mood changes, loss of energy, bone loss, prostate issues, etc. A dear friend of mine has experienced this and is not doing much better on monthly testosterone injections. My heart goes out to both of you on the bipolar issue. I...
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    heartache...

    Yes, it's terribly rude to disappear on someone you have a set date to meet and really bad form to request nudes before doing so as well. I think you can use this as a learning experience and reminder not to go against what you're comfortable with. Sending nudes too soon adds a level of stress...
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    Polyamory: Married and Dating - Premier July 12th

    After watching the show my reactions were a bit mixed. On the one hand, it wasn't as bad as I feared it had the potential to be. It wasn't quite what I expected from the promos (which were nothing short of awful). On the other hand, I was still not impressed and felt it was not a good...
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    Love from Kamala Devi

    Hi Kamala. I'm really curious how you and your partners feel about the editing and presentation of the show now that the first episode has aired.
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    Polyamory: Married and Dating - Premier July 12th

    It's cool to see poly in the more mainstream media in general but I do agree, this looks very sex-focused and there is a bit of a disconnect in the overtly (almost exclusively) sexual imagery in the promo but the talk is about love. While I am all for sex-positivity, I think it can be a very...
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    Sleeping Arrangements and Beds: Merged Threads, General Discussion

    Yes and yes to both of these. I think this obviously encompasses much more than sleeping arrangements. Your needs are not being valued here and it sounds like you are not being treated like an equal (or significant) part of this "triad" relationship. You deserve consideration and respect and it...
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    Being poly is so unfair.

    I can definitely sympathize with a lot of what you're feeling now. I have been there myself in the past. I know you said you can't access you school's psychiatrist because it is summer, but could you possibly find another one? Maybe you could check with student services to see if they do offer...
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    How to turn a girl into a Unicorn

    I agree, it's absolutely absurd. Unfortunately, as a bisexual woman, I have run across this mindset more than once myself. Back when I initially 'came out' and it became known around school, a girl in my dance class suddenly expressed discomfort with having been using the same changing room as...
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