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    does it have a name?

    realization... Today I came to the realization I was holding on to hope, hope that they would change their minds, hope that if we tried a little harder.. perhaps it could work again. So I asked about this, she said there was no possibility. And in their relationship she's the one who calls the...
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    does it have a name?

    discouraged... Thank you all guys for your support. Right now I feel all the effort was worth nothing. You see we were geographically apart, and we were working hard on changing that. All the endurance, love, compassion, all to try to make it happen and possible.. all we went trough.. was for...
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    not sure what to do

    what about the girlfriend? sheiksquall, I kow you want to protect your marriage, and I dont know all details on how the 3 of you came to be together, but given my current possition I can relate to the girlfriend and it's a horrible feeling. I can not speak for her, but when a similar situation...
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    does it have a name?

    feeling miserable this is probably not the best moment to post, and I apologyze to those who hate tears. Last time I said we had decided to go separate ways, well, the separate ways became a let's stay friends. I've been crying the past half hour because I dont know how to be friends with him...
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    does it have a name?

    Please, dont shudder redpeper. There's a lot I've left out on the post and to get to this situation we all had our share of blame. My biggest mistake was waiting for things to change because it was hinted on their part it will and because I thought it would get better with the passing of time...
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    does it have a name?

    thank you I agree with all of you. The Secondary Bill of rights helped a lot to see all under a new light, thank you EugenePoet :) Thank you LovingRadiance, I'm kind on envious of your V, I hope he would think more like you and not so much on his needs and desires. But at the same time as a...
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    does it have a name?

    Hi, I come here for some guidance, I've been here before and feel bad to just post when things get ugly, but I dont know where else to ask. I'll try to be short and explain the situation. I'm a girl, straight, who started a relationship with this couple who's been married for a very long time...
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    some advice needed (V)

    Sure JRiver! ...my boyfriend and his wife... is way more clear! :) i forgot the multiple possibilties on polyamory, won't happen again :)
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    some advice needed (V)

    Thank you all! I really love you all right now. :) I was reluctant at the beginning to post, but the support is unbelievable. I will try to get them to read some other posts, because each of us have to deal with different issues, and seeing how other people deal with their own issues gives you...
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    some advice needed (V)

    Thank you, Fidelia. Your words have me reflecting on how I've been acting, and why I've been keeping it all inside. You are right, the hardest part is to decide what it is that I actually want. I'm still debating this with myself. Between her and me there's a growing friendship. I care for...
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    some advice needed (V)

    Thank you, XYZ. I'm in a V, only it is not as separate as it might be. I'm heterosexual, so even if sexual encounters (and any other kind) are with all parties present, there's no interaction between her and me. That's something she has requested to agree to start a poly relationship. So, even...
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    some advice needed (V)

    I was reading other posts, and was impressed by how many similarities there are in people's experiences. Some sound so familiar, you are left wondering if it's not your own story. :) I'm new to this and, like any newbie, I'm scared of making mistakes that would hurt those I care for. What...
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