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    Online Dating… OKCupid... what a trip. What works for you?

    One thing that I have found with over 13 years dealing with online dating is that since my tender soft side is usually only reveled in intimate settings I generally come off as a hardass online. That part sucks. Everyone especially men are shocked when they meet me in person because of this. It...
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    Well that was a dead end

    I did indeed pay attention to her handle. I was referring to the mentality similarities of her husband with the typical southern redneck man. I do admit I missed the D/s thing. However that really does not change the fact that the man wants to have sex with homever he chooses when he chooses but...
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    Struggling with what I have a right to ask for

    people are not always truthful with themselves on what they want in their heart. If you tell yourself that you want a particular thing over and over then eventually you will convence yourself that you wanted it all along.
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    Struggling with what I have a right to ask for

    Sounds to me as if D is wanting a mono relationship with his wife but is trying to keep wife happy while C is tired of his role of being referee between husband and wife and needs to be more in a womans life.
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    Well that was a dead end

    Oh horse pucky! Stop making excuses for his selfesh behavior and start screaming for equality! If his treating you as if you did not matter was not bothering you then this post would not be here! And furthermore trust me on this because almost every man in the sothern part of the US uses a...
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    Well that was a dead end

    The mentality displayed by your man is def southern redneck! The whole I can do what I want but NO ONE else will touch what is mine!
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    Well that was a dead end

    Oh just one thing is your bf a southern redneck man? This has the pregnant barefoot smell all over it!
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    Well that was a dead end

    OH HELL NAW! LOL IM AT A LOSS. There are so many things I could say here but.......I respectfully decline!
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    Online Dating… OKCupid... what a trip. What works for you?

    Oh lawd have mercy. LOL ok to give you a clue as to why some women do notbother responding to every email. I have a profile on adult friend finder for 13 yrs now. My profile has had 47000 views since 9-15-11. I receive at least 10 emails per day. out of the 10 maybe 1 if im lucky read my profile...
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    Sleeping Arrangements and Beds: Merged Threads, General Discussion

    One other thing that I noticed in all of your posts was there is no mention of the closeness between the wife and you. Everything seems to be centered around the husbands sexual desires of wanting his two women and the wifes jealousy. This leads me to believe that she is only having sexual...
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    Sleeping Arrangements and Beds: Merged Threads, General Discussion

    jaynine thank you so much for posting this thread. this is exactly what I was referring to in my post about jealousy and the 3rd being the one who is cast aside. I have seen exactly this situation over and over in both the poly and the swinging lifestyles over the last 25 years. I feel for you...
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    In person or over the phone?

    Tell him exactly what you are telling us. You want to be intimate with G and you do not want to wait another two weeks. Human nature is not going to allow you to wait two weeks if you are sleeping next to G already.
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    2 primary relationships, new engagement

    Well I hope this helps in your decision. The couple that I was part of a quad with that relocated to the west coast went thru this exact thing that you are going thru now. After they got settled in out there the wife met a woman. Within a few months she moved in with the two of them. Another few...
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    2 primary relationships, new engagement

    I know I am most likely going to get some heat over this but I have to say it. Simple fact is that you are NOT in love with this man. You have not been for a long time. You are comfortable with him because he is your rock. To keep dragging it on so that you have your emotional support person...
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    Jealousy

    whew! Ok to reply a general response to all the accusations and assumptions. I said that I have been involved in a poly quad, never a triad. The quad was awesome. Full of love, trust, communication, and only ended due to the other couple relocating 3000 miles away for work. My ex husband after...
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    Jealousy

    Analogy for troubled relationships If the motor in your car has a rod knocking are you going to load it up with people and take off on a 500 mile road trip? A responsible, intelligent person is going to fix their car first so that everyone is not sitting stranded on the side of a highway in the...
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    Jealousy

    Sparkle. Thank you for the chuckle. I love the part about wife raising hell at husband. That is exact;ly the reason That I posted. I had that veryt thing happen to me last night. The wife in a couple that I had met with a cpl of weeks ago started sending me hateful texts yesterday about her...
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    Jealousy

    tonberry Thank you for a well thought out reply. I understand that jealousy is a human emotion. That was not what has turned me off. The fact that they made an issue of a human emotion with their spouses and then tried to make those spouses feel guilt is the turnoff. Again I am not attacking. I...
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    Jealousy

    hoping I really do not know at this point. I came to this site to find a couple for a loving relationship free of childish issues. IMO the whole purpose of having a poly relationship is to have love and emotions involved instead of just having casual NSA partners. My ex husband and I had an...
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    Jealousy

    Missed point I do believe kat that you missed the point of my post. If this is indeed a site for people who want loving relationships with more than one person than I am indeed on the correct site. The point of my post that you obviously missed is the fact that there are hundreds of posts made...
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