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    New-ish to Open/Poly, and My First Relationship

    More than likely it will please you to know that this will probably be my last note on this, since replies to me have taken on an antagonistic and judgemental tone. "You believe people in your past ditched you because you stink or something?" I don't know for certain why they did, but I am of...
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    New-ish to Open/Poly, and My First Relationship

    Thanks for all the responses! There are definitely some good points you all have made I need to think about. I hear what everyone is saying about, 'if it causes you pain, pull out, he doesn't get priority'. This is difficult for me; at various times in my life, people close to me have pulled...
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    Children Of A Poly Relationship

    I don't see the problem with not going into gory detail about being poly until kids are older; I would do the same if I was a single mom dating. Adults should have their own lives; kids I think do best when seeing their parents happy. At a young age (before puberty and their own relationships)...
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    New-ish to Open/Poly, and My First Relationship

    Thanks for the pointer, I am over there now. ;)
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    New-ish to Open/Poly, and My First Relationship

    First off, thanks for sharing your story Magdlyn; I'm sorry my post brought up memories of your relationship and how you still miss your partner! =( I feel some of my pain in what you describe. It is so VERY hard to stay away, yet Monday was also excruciating. It was a real joy to see his face...
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    New-ish to Open/Poly, and My First Relationship

    Thanks for the post and good question, Galagirl! Last night was D&D and I am battling the onset of a cold, so apologies for the late response. There is definitely some hope there, yes. To go through all the conversations would take a while but I feel that he has definitely sent out mixed...
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    New-ish to Open/Poly, and My First Relationship

    Thanks for your thoughts, (as well as others!). You mentioned something that came up when "Oscar" and I went to play pool yesterday, so I am responding to your post. I knew he was going to have his kids for a few days and then go away, and I didn't want the rawness and pain to be the last thing...
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    New-ish to Open/Poly, and My First Relationship

    Opinion/guidance/support appreciated! =) Apologies for length! My husband "R" and I decided to open up our marriage about four years ago; he has had a consistent partner (kinky) for about three years, "J" but it's only the past four months that I've done it. I wanted him to be comfortable, and...
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