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    NRE sucks..

    Yeah I didn't reply at all to the last thread.. So I am now to this one. Yes the talk went okay. Not wonderful oh yay your going to be getting physical which wouldn't happen lol, but he didn't freak out or get all angry and we talked a lot, but less then I expected. Abysmal was a strong word...
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    NRE sucks..

    Aloha all, I have to say, this NRE everyone has spoken of has been foreign to me up until the past couple of weeks and it really sucks. It's great when I'm with and talking to the new guy but it's completely killed my interest in being with my husband physically. Like I have a hard time enjoying...
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    How do you navigate dating when one partner isn't poly?

    Hello All, I've posted before and I'm sure some of you are familiar with my story. So after more than two years of just talking to men online I've actually found one I want to be with. My husband had originally said when I was ready to move into physical to let him know. But it's been so long...
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    Seeking help (me mono, she poly)

    Fascinated and care... I guess I'm a rare woman lol, nice to meet you. And I've always been this way since the first one I touched and thought, wow it's so small I hope they get bigger. His feelings of inadequacy in regards to his size are real, and a lot of men have them even those with a good...
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    Seeking help (me mono, she poly)

    I'm sorry I didn't answer your question. Because it's hard to believe that a man who isn't a cuck to some extent would allow all of this to happen to him without a fight. You tell it like you have no choice while you do, everyone does. Obviously you can't control how she feels but you have a...
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    Seeking help (me mono, she poly)

    I didn't say I don't, and really it doesn't matter if I do, or if anyone else in here does. They are still offering advice based on the facts provided by you. I actually believe you as far as I do most people online lol, and people in life. But really it doesn't matter at all if random internet...
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    Seeking help (me mono, she poly)

    Sorry for sarcasm Yes, you see my problem then. Sure, you don't believe my story but if you for one second accept the fact that I'm telling the truth you might see what difficult situation I am The rest of your story I take as a huge insult so I will not even comment on it. Again: If you for...
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    Sex and Childhood Trauma

    Helpful resource Has helped me a great deal Aftersilence.org
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    Taken a turn...

    Oops Did miss one thing maybe more but literally thought of it as soon as I closed the window. I told my husband about the affair, so he already knew when he saw my phone. Came clean gave him the details and for a few months after confessing I went from affair to openly having a BF to breaking...
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    Taken a turn...

    Mags Yes my life is super busy right now, it got increasingly so around October but when I initially started the conversation about opening up, things weren't busy on my side. And with my husband always gone I was feeling pretty lonely and unattended to if that makes sense. Pretty close...
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    Taken a turn...

    Mags and Serb The BF is in the mainland. However a work project is supposed to put him here for a few months. Not sure exactly when. So the platonic hanging would be like a beach outing when he is here. Yes to the cyber/kink though not as frequently recently, but yes. I don't consider it...
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    Taken a turn...

    Sexysurb Hello, I have read your story and while your midlife crisis was a bit... extreme, I did understand the needs you were feeling but also Hero's reaction as I can see my husband's reactions being similar. To correct some things, we have one kid, seven years until she is of age to go off...
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    Taken a turn...

    Mag Can I message you directly?
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    Taken a turn...

    Kc43 Thank you for the response and acknowledging my struggle with losing my tat Artist! It's been surprisingly difficult because he does beautiful work, he's actually one of the best on the island and I've spent more then 15 hours under his gun. And we were friends. I don't trust easily or let...
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    Taken a turn...

    Ravenscroft Thank you for addressing random sentences out of context did you actually read the whole thread?, you do have some valid points but more errors then I care to address sentence by sentence myself. I will correct the most glaring to me at least. Artist = tattoo artist as discussed in...
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    Taken a turn...

    Sorry about the wall I tend to forget to paragraph for easier comprehension plus yes I was feeling very alone in tgat moment. Thank you for the support and I see a number of questions so I will try to answer them. Online Bf is very much around, his work has been busy so we've had a hard time...
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    Taken a turn...

    So almost a year ago my husband agreed to start the ball rolling on opening our marriage on my side. He wishes to remain mono with zero interest in others. To start it I joined a dating website and started talking to men, though I am also interested in women. After a few months of talking I...
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    I Need Advice and Help

    Exactly Lunabunny, thank you! I was thinking so much of that but just didn't have the time or presence of mind this morning when I replied. Good job!!
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    I Need Advice and Help

    Not to speak on behalf of sexysurb but just from what I've read and being in a place of understanding based on my own experience so far. She heaps guilt because there is no one else to blame, she brought it up, requested it, talked him into it, and then ran rampant. It's how she feels regardless...
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    I Need Advice and Help

    I'm sorry I'm sorry. That sucks. Speaking from experience, the guilt/self-blame your feeling from selfishly hurting him won't go away, for years if ever. It's only been a few months so yeah he's still very much under it especially with no one to talk to about it. Our pasts/situations are...
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