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    Candie's dilemma, partner feeling left out (moved by mod)

    I guess one question is what fairness means to J: would they think it is fair if your heart breaks? would they think it is fair if your other partners' hearts break? it feels like there are insecurities on the part of J and they need support to overcome them. this request stems from a difficult...
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    Relationship hierarchy and ownership of emotions

    Hello wise people...I'd like to get your views on something that happened this weekend. I am a bit stuck in how to frame it in my mind. other than the practicalities, this touches on relationship hierarchy (my boyfriend is my primary but i am not his primary) and owning one's own baggage, so...