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    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    Sending some hugs your way Kevin, if you like.
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    Spam getting worse...

    Is EMM ok? No activity this year that I could find. Deleting spam wasn’t technically difficult when I did it (under old system). It was tedious though.
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    Fun and Frolic With Long-Term Love

    There is apparently a way to set aside certain memories from being shown again on FB. I haven’t used it so don’t know it works exactly.
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    Ugh so weary of media companies thinking ethical non-monogamy (of which open relationships are a subset) is only couples. It’s just so dull. Also what about major extra terrestrial broadcasters?
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    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    I always enjoy your updates - for what that is worth.
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    Not Dead Yet!

    TinyDog passed away last week. He had a long term heart problem that got much worse quickly. I miss him so much. TinyCat is being extra cuddly which is really nice. Oh it’s hard to have elderly pets. I knew this was coming but that doesn’t make the grief any lighter.
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    The Notebook of JaneQSmythe

    Oh Jane, I am so sorry.
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    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    I’m sorry Kevin. It’s so hard when pets are ill.
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    Real Voices of Poly (Podcast)

    I listen to Multiamory quite a bit. It’s one of the best relationship podcasts, not just poly or ethical non-monogamy podcasts. I’ve learned a lot from listening to it.
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    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    Congrats Eddie!
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    Not Dead Yet!

    Kevin, Thank you for the well wishes. I also am pulling for you and yours to get through this time. Yes, indeed. It’s scary.
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    What precautions are you taking against the coronavirus in your poly networks?

    I'm self-isolating at home and only going out to walk the Tiny Dog and get essential supplies. I have diabetes and high blood pressure so am at higher risk for complications from COVID-19. I tell you I'm so grateful I have Tiny Dog and Tiny Cat. Both are in good health and keep me company. My...
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    Not Dead Yet!

    Thought I'd give an update. I'm self-isolating at home. I have some chronic health conditions that put me at higher risk of complications from COVID-19 so I am attempting to limit contact as much as I can. My parents are elderly and also have chronic conditions. Fortunately they are taking...
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    Fun and Frolic With Long-Term Love

    I’m sorry Bluebird. It took me a long time to recover from the end of my marriage. Be gentle with yourself.
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    When and how to tell your crush you're poly

    I am not out at work for many reasons. But I have never dated a coworker and I doubt I ever will. Too much possibility of things going very badly, if things go badly. Way too much risk for me. So I personally don’t recommend dating coworkers. I do suggest thinking a lot about risks. Decide...
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    Sex addict or high libido

    Many experts have argued that sex addiction is not an addiction like alcohol or drug addiction. Can compulsive sex seeking be a problem and cause disruptions in life? Yes absolutely but that does not make it an addiction. David R. Ley, Ph.D, wrote a book about it...
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    Happy ILIC Day!

    I keep reading this as I LICK. Maybe that's the point? I love Star Trek's concept of IDIC. It was a big deal to me to encounter it in the show and the books back then.
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    News worth sharing!

    Congratulations! I hope the ceremony is amazing and your married life afterwards is too.
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    Cohabitation Advice? Non-Mono Partner with Long-Term Live In Partner

    Do you want to be a parent? Seven months in seems really early for anyone in a newish relationship to want to take that major leap. Is being around the child more the main point of moving in? Are there advantages for your relationship with your partner? If you do really want to be a parent...
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    French and Polyamory

    Lul is correct. Yes there was some impact of the American Revolution on the French Revolution. However the French Revolution was primarily shaped by French experience and history and not so much outside influences. For example, it was a real Revolution in ways the American one never was. The US...