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I very much appreciate your thoughts and commentary Magdlyn, some of which I had not fully considered. I knew that this would not be easy and I have lots of things to work out if I am to proceed.

Thank your for your comments A199, for sharing your experience about what you went through with your wife and for the link to the forum post It is very helpful to me and much appreciated

Good points, thank you.

yes I am bottled up inside. My wife knows the inner me in that I would love for us to try a mutual poly lifestyle, but what she doesnt know is that I might do it with or without her. She listens to me but dismisses the subject when I bring it up. I would like to her to be open to having a...

Thanks for your reply, comments and questions Ravenscroft, please see below - I assume you mean "...very much longer" as, for the most part, you've been doing exactly that for 30 years. correct, I mean for very much longer. I have been living a mono lifestyle forever and I feel the need to...

Thanks for the welcome and sharing your story CU. It sounds like the reasoning and way that you transitioned from mono into poly were all good it it was very well done. Congrats Answers to your questions- I don’t know how I would handle my wife falling in love with another’s man but if she...

I don’t see many (or any) posts from guys like me where the spouse is unwilling to have anything to do with it I want to go it alone, there is a local Meetup group in my area. Will most polys view me an nothing more than an unethical cheater looking for action?

Hi kdt. You seem to be very actively involved in the group. I am brand new and have questions if you have the time to answer thanks!

All very good suggestions although #1 only applies to those that really need it (I know because I need it!)

Hello, I’m in my 50’s and have been married 30 years with three great kids. The desire to live a poly lifestyle has been very strong for the past 20 years or so, but other than one affair that ended a while ago I have not acted on it. I was not aware of the term poly until recently. The...