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    Polyamory perspective on internet porn?

    Porn My take on internet porn is that it's perfectly fine unless you are replacing sex or time spent with your sweeties with the porn. Personally, I find most porn to be tacky and fake, and I don't think it's worth the potential computer worms, but each to their own. I'd certainly watch porn...
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    hey, i know i am female and you are gay, i wonder if you want to speak to my husband more, he's...

    hey, i know i am female and you are gay, i wonder if you want to speak to my husband more, he's bisexual and interested in down to earth guys who are family-focused, like you. we want to foster/adopt in the future, but we already have 2 bio kids and 2 step kids that visit us. i'm very...
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    Interfaith couples and tangles

    i haven't read the others' posts yet, i'll go back and read them, but i have to say off the bat, that your SO is struggling with your christianity in the same way that others struggle with polyamory- that is, she has a fixed definition in her mind of what it means, and struggles to come to terms...
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    Bi Assumptions

    my bi husband i have to say, that i have actively encouraged my bisexual husband to pursue relationships and experimentation with other men, but he is more hesitant to do it. this could be due to a couple of things- he is more mono-minded than i am, he was sexually abused by a man in the...
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    Bi Assumptions

    ha, being a female, i know nothing about the gay leather scene, but i'm sure it is out there. in fact, i think there are probably sub-scenes which overlap, but it's hard for a newbie to find those. a lot of my friends are pagan, and i am happy with the pagan scene overall, as it's pretty...
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    Bi Assumptions

    actually, i haven't seen much overlap at all between the kink and LGBTQ community, but there's a sizeable overlap between the kink and poly communities. on the other hand, most of the kinky women i know are pansexual or bisexual, but not part of the LGBTQ community. i think a lot of us are not...
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    Confused in WI

    i'm also from wisconsin and poly-curious. it's very nerve wracking getting started! but i don't have many experiences with poly, so it's hard for me to know how i will feel or how i will deal with negative feelings.
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    hi, i too am from western wisconsin, near baldwin. whereabouts do you live?

    hi, i too am from western wisconsin, near baldwin. whereabouts do you live?
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    Twin Cities MN bi female

    i'm also a mom and it's definitely difficult! i live near the twin cities, in western wisconsin. hello, neighbor! ;)
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    Bi Assumptions

    both my husband and i are bisexual (pansexual, actually). and being bi is the main reason for being poly, for me. i just don't crave another male's touch as much as i crave a females'. but, i would say, being kinky also has a lot to do with my wanting to be poly, because the local kink...
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    Facilitating Chemistry Between Them?

    yep i definitely want more than just sex, all 3 of us do. although both of us girls are younger and horny lol, and my husband is older and more patient. :P it's going to be hard to keep the NRE at bay while we work on the relationship aspect.
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    Feeling crazy nervous...

    hi :) i'm new here too, and that's the same reason i'm interested in poly. i am satisfied with my man but i feel like i need a relationship with a woman too. from what i've seen/read, poly relationships are a lot more complex but they can be very fulfilling. plus there are many couples out...
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    Facilitating Chemistry Between Them?

    this is true, polychromopolous... he is a bit introverted and still sorting out his feelings. i'm going to talk to him about what he means exactly later tonight and hopefully get some clarification.
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    Facilitating Chemistry Between Them?

    thank you! that was helpful. he doesn't want to have a date just him and her though, i wonder why
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    Facilitating Chemistry Between Them?

    So my husband and i went on a date with our new girlfriend... I have to say, things got hot and heavy from the start. It was wonderful... for me and the GF... my husband is more of a slow mover and didn't connect right away to the new girl, which he didn't tell me until after all the physical...
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    Inexpensive Date Ideas

    thanks for the suggestions guys ^_^
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    Inexpensive Date Ideas

    So obviously being in more than one relationship at a time is more work, more time, and more money. Money is tight for us, so I am just wondering if you guys have ideas for inexpensive dates or how do you handle money issues between three or more people? I am a stay-at-home mom so I don't have...
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    New to here, but not to Poly

    welcome :) i live on a farm and relish the idea of an intentional community.
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    Perhaps because I am single....

    my husband and i are new to poly... we got married first, and developed interest in poly after. but since we got married mainly because of insurance and children, we would have gotten married regardless. :) i'm a stay at home mom... i need my husband's insurance and the married tax status...
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    Religious survey

    i identify with "pagan." NYCindy, you sound like you might identify with a "pantheist" worldview. i lean somewhere between pantheist and pagan, with taoism thrown in there as well. :)
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