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This is an awesome thread. I am reading it all while my former bf/current roomie is trimming his new gf's hair. My current bf is sitting right next to me playing Dead Space 2. I just had my hair trimmed too. We all had brunch just a bit ago. My ex and I cooked, since it is our house. I am...

thanks guys. reading your feedback helps. yes, i will stop saying that we "broke up". this will help. right now i am feeling great about it all. i just don't understand folks sometimes. i never like to bring up the negative side of things when i'm dealing with others. i guess i tend to attract...

thanks. i am happy. my ex is super happy. his gf will be moving in this summer to finish her degree and i will be moving in with my new bf next year. so far we all seem to be in total NRE but we are sill grounded in reality. yes, as you mentioned, i am secure with my choices thus far but it...

hello all. long time since i've been on. i'll make it quick. i was in a long term poly/open relationship for the past three years. me and the man decided to break up. we are still great friends and live together. we both met new partners and we are both super happy. yes, i am poly. my new...

cute ha!

I am dealing with this now. Every man I have met in the last few months, yes, every single one (around 8) have only wanted sex from me. They see "poly" and think A: I'm really just cheating on my bf and i'll screw them asap or B: I'm only poly because I can't get enough sex. This drives me...

I haven't read all the replies so I may be repeating, but there is a vaccine out. I know it was market for teens so I am not sure of any age restrictions. I have not used it and I am not sure if it is still on the market but I was excited to hear about it a few years back.

cute.

this one here is a fun idea. Dinner skype.

You are not alone on this one. My guy has some of the same issues. He hasn't admitted it yet and I am not sure how I should handle it. The only difference with me is that I've never told my guy that I was only into girls. He has known that I wanted other guys from the start. Have you talked to...

yes, safety is big here in our house. I always think I'm a big girl and can handle myself but I do need to hear someone tell me to "be safe" or I forget. I can get caught up in the romance and fancy shiny new feelings. I'm always really hard on my bf because I have to remind him about using...

Yes, and no. I do actually get a thrill out of knowing that I can share this with my boyfriend. It makes me feel whole and safe. At the same time I am thinking of all my past relationships and being terrified at the thought of my bf's rejection of any other partners I may have, mainly partners...

Hey guys. All is well today. I asked my bf a few more times just make sure he was okay with everything. He just wants me to be safe. It's strange. I know what I would like to imagine myself as when I think about the type of relationships I want, but now that I am actually able to express myself...

Problem solved. I just told my bf. he didn't say much. I told him that me and the new guy will be meeting up this weekend, with the dogs. He's okay with it. I was just worried because it's still new to us. We've talked about being open all this time but when something actually happens it feels...

Another note: I'm a rusher. I rush into everything, video games, bike riding, new projects... etc. It's just the way I am. This new guy is the same. If I see something I want I work to get it, and fast. My bf is different. He's what gamer folks (yes I'm a dork) call a "camper". He sits and plans...

Hi all. I just met a man online this week. He knows that I'm poly and he knows that I have a boyfriend. He is okay with this. He wants to meet up and so do I. I guess I would like to know a few things. This is the first time I have met someone online that lives in town and actually is...

Thanks so much for the replies. We are doing better after talking about it more. I told him that I needed to find out why I had such a strong reaction to him looking on the site. I wasn't bothered by the site itself. I just didn't understand the fact that he actually thinks he'll fiind a real...

forgot to mention: my bf is not able to have sex with BG or his semi GF for various reasons, so no he is not using and abusing me. He just really wants sex and he wants it to be the type of sex he likes. I am not having sex with anyone else at the moment. I would love to but I just can't sleep...

Hello. Me again. I just had a conversation/heated discussion with my boyfriend. We have been together and poly for a few years now. Here's the short story. I saw him going on a sex site. Like myspace for people that just want all kinds of sex: nasty, normal, freaky, friendly, anything you can...

I hate to read that you are dealing with this much pain and confusion now. It sounds as if he wasn't the the best guy for you. You deserve much better.