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    3 years of a turbulent polyam situation, feeling desperate and at a loss

    I'll definitely give this a look through! Thank you so much for your help and thoughts
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    3 years of a turbulent polyam situation, feeling desperate and at a loss

    Honestly, reading this makes me really emotional because it's also pretty much what my therapist has been telling me as well. Thank you for saying this, I appreciate it a lot. Thank you to the both of you as well, and this whole forum for the help you guys have given me. It's very true that I...
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    3 years of a turbulent polyam situation, feeling desperate and at a loss

    Yeah, I'm trying to get better at doing this now. Even though I would say that before, I would still often give my two cents, and in doing so just never made matters any better. There have been so many times where I just couldn't sit and let things fly because of how misconstrued or...
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    3 years of a turbulent polyam situation, feeling desperate and at a loss

    Yes, I completely agree. I had tried mentioning the idea of voice calls before, but unfortunately Bun and Fox weren't comfortable with that. I have been able to actually get us to meet with a therapist in a group setting through Zoom at least... twice? three times? before, but even there I have...
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    3 years of a turbulent polyam situation, feeling desperate and at a loss

    Yes, we have, no worries there!! Honestly, before all of this, there was never a worry about anything like this. We shared with each other what we wanted to and kept separate what we didn't. Now though, I have passcode locks on all my devices for privacy, though mostly for Bun's peace of mind...
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    3 years of a turbulent polyam situation, feeling desperate and at a loss

    Hello everyone, sorry for how long it's been-- I'm a busy college student and have been struggling finding the time and energy lately. Phew, I'm not sure where to even begin, but I'll do my best. Sorry again for any lack of clarity, and thank you to everyone for giving input. I guess to start...
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    3 years of a turbulent polyam situation, feeling desperate and at a loss

    Sorry for the lack of clarity. There has been three years of problems and information that I've had to cut severely short to fit within a character limit. I wanted to try and give as much context as I possibly could. The direct communication was in regards to Hub and Bun, and issues that they...
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    3 years of a turbulent polyam situation, feeling desperate and at a loss

    Okay, thank you for letting me know! I tried not to overshare, but there's been a lot for context purposes. My nervousness just comes from never having done this before. 😅
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    3 years of a turbulent polyam situation, feeling desperate and at a loss

    Hi All, I've been a lurker on this website for a long time. I only just got the nerve to make an account. I've been really struggling with a difficult dynamic for 3 yrs. I'm feeling at my wit's end about it all. I'm nervous to be putting all this out there, but I figured this is the best place...
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