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As long as you and your partner are on the same page, it shouldn’t matter. Just like any monogamous relationship, you don’t know how the first date will go. Imagine you go on your first date, have an absolutely incredible connection so you get a hotel room and sleep together. Then, as soon as...

You have a lot of great advice here, so I will just add this. You said that you were both going into this with the intention of it being long term. As you start to go through life experiences you will find the balance that you need. There will be times that Island Queen will need you and Red...

Very well said. There is a lot to fix in this situation and with kids involved, you should get professional help. Your kids aren't your wife's priority right now and someone should be making them the priority in your family.

But your wife stayed there with your kids?

Exactly one month later. Hope you guys are in a better spot.

Mod note: Noted I will rephrase. If she wasn't happy before she cheated on you, and wasn't treating you the way you think you should be treated, that may not be the most positive environment for you or your kids. As I said before, you sound like a good man. Don’t reduce yourself to be in a...

I find it interesting that you consider the kink of humiliation “unkind talk”. It may not be for you or me, but to each their own.

If she wasn't happy before, and wasn't treating you the way you think you should be treated, you are either getting off on the humiliation that you feel, or you're stuck in a relationship that you aren't strong enough to leave. That says a lot.

Hello, We are also a closed triad and our fiancé has a 19-year old daughter. When our fiancé and I first started dating she was only 11. Since my wife and I never had kids, to say it was an adjustment would be an understatement. Our fiancé was very conscious of balancing our relationship and...

It's not that you can't give her what she wants. It sounds like you have given each other a nice family, a solid career, and decades of memories. Don't sell yourself short, you are both in this together. In the end this new direction should make your relationship even stronger with Jade. If...

If this is truly the case, and you really love your wife, I would try to stick it through. I think you're right, it sounds like it is "just a fling", but that being said, it definitely sounds like your wife wants something more than what the two of you have built (so far). If she doesn't want a...

Thanks to everyone for all the advice. Sorry it took so long to update this thread. Shortly after I posted it, all hell broke loose and unfortunately nobody was traveling anywhere. I appreciate you sharing your experience, Ellasyel. I think it really may just be that easy at most all-inclusive...

I thought the same thing. If I can find a resort that really grabs us I will take the chance and email them. I just figured I would ask here and see if there was this underground world of poly-friendly vacations that I might have been missing. Thanks again

I agree with kdt and suggest being open and honest with your meta, especially now that you can see both sides of the situation. I think she needs to see both sides too. It sounds like you're SO is conscious of whats going on and is gracious enough to stick up for the both of you when need be...

I don't have much experience in this scene, but I will give my opinion as an outsider looking in. It sounds like your friend does see the connection the two of you had, but he doesn't know where that connection will fit into his life. So he is emotionally overwhelmed and want's to step back and...

Thanks for the suggestions. We would really prefer an adults only resort since it will just be the three of us. A vacation to Disney, we'd have no problem with kids everywhere. A quiet spot on a private beach somewhere....that's an entirely different story. Haha. It seems like two couples with...

Thanks for the fast reply. We’ve got no problem with a king bed, that’s what we usually sleep in. My concern was more about dining and resort activities. Typically with an all inclusive you’re paying for everything up front. So we’re paying for two people but three people are dining, drinking...

My wife and our girlfriend have gone on a couple of vacations together and being a triad was never an issue. When you're cruising it's easy enough to add on that third person to your reservation. Our next vacation we would like to do something different, but we're not sure what we want to do...

Hello community. I just stumbled on this site today and have spent hours reading posts. You have a great forum and it's nice to see how many different poly relationships are out there. My name is B, I am in a triad relationship with my wife D. We have been married over 14 years and opened our...