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I can completely see what you are trying to say. Oddly enough I was sitting in Outback yesterday for Mothers day and a very similar thought pattern started to cross my mind.

Thanks, Allie. Right now I'm at such a crossroads in my life it feels like I have no choice, but to sacrifice some part of myself with either path I choose.

I'm currently living in Savannah and make trips to Jax frequently for work. So if you even feel like having lunch with a like minded person feel free to let me know. I'd love to meet some of the people from here.

A season of change... that can always be unsettling. However, it sounds like you're a very down to earth and open-minded person. So I'm certain if you keep meeting this season head on, like you have been, you will find yourself more complete and at home then you could have imagined before the...

Sounds like you've done a really good job on having an open mind. Don't worry so much about what's down the road. I was raised in a D/s home and my first partner was raised in a D/s/poly home. Believe it or not we both turned out to be pretty good people. The love you will find in relationships...

Breath...just breath. Wait until you get the results to panic any more, but then only allow yourself a few minutes to do so because it is what it is and you will be given the tools you need to get through it. Panicking will only make things harder then they need to be. I understand your fears...

I must say that I think Slip has a valid point here. I once felt the same as you. I'm pretty sure I even said all the same things you've said before. The only twist is I also live a D/s lifestyle as well so its my nature to be submissive at least to men, but my feelings on women and letting them...

Glad to have one more objective persons POV. Welcome!

Welcome. You did find a good forum. I've only been on here about a week and can already tell that everyone is very warm, welcoming, and respectful. I hope you enjoy it as much as I have. Good luck with your endeavours.

Thanks for letting us in on your experience. You shared some very valuable life lessons. I enjoyed the insight.

Being in a poly family that my partner desires is something I've struggled with for years to a point that it has torn us apart, but are finally getting to where we should have been so I can't comment on most things regarding those aspects. However, I was basically raised surrounded by D/s and...

My difficult matter in need of discussing is when should someone already involved in the family be informed of other possible relationships that could be forming? In other words, is it ridiculous for me to expect to know at the first chance of a new relationship developing or ridiculous for him...

Idealist, Thank you for your words of encouragement. I believe what you say to be true. I know once I start to embrace things it will get much easier. For now I'm just trying to remember to breath as I take steps back into his life and learn to adjust to knowing I'm not alone in being able to...

We wouldn't be the people we are if God didn't make us this way. I can't say I'm bi but I've had sexual relationships with many women and though it is not in my nature to enjoy returning the favours I enjoy getting from them I would never look at myself as sinning for partaking in such...

Joined to get some insight as to how others of similar lifestyles think and live. Still pretty fresh to the poly world. Well honestly I guess I'm fresh to admitting to myself that I'm part of this world. I hope no one takes offence to that. It's not said in reference to anyone else's choices...

I guess we're neighbours then.