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I posted a thread about abuse but am choosing to delete it and unable to. I am sorry.

I am thinking of thenot wanting to know route. Sorry I am listening and so appreciate the responses. I really do. Just at work so its hard. Ill give Bette r responses when I'm off I promise. :)

Because I agreed to be in a triad that did not engage in swinging. To me it is infidelity.

I am at work so I have to make this short and concise. I have been in a polamorous "marriage" with my male/female partners for going on 7 years (see my profile). I told them I wanted them to stop their swinging habit, which they were active in, upon my moving in, 7 years ago. Come to find out...

I guess you could say that I was the mythical unicorn. We do exist, but I think our relationships just kinda happen, you know?

The other hard thing is, I hate to admit it, but I'm scared. After 5 years I've put a lot of time and money in this relationship, and as I am not legally married to him, I have no legal recourse to get compensation if we break up. I am currently on unemployment as I was laid off as a foodstamps...

Thank you so much! Every weekend they have friends over and get wasted. The kids even fetch their shots. It makes me feel so sad. I don't join them so that there will be a sober adult there and a driver in case there is an emergency. As a result I spend my weekends watching the kids and feel...

I agree, the way he phrased this is really disrespectful and hurtful. You shpuld address it. I know how it feels to feel second best and it sucks donkeyballs. I'm so sorry. I need to take all of you guys' and my own advice and address this problem in my own life as well. I love u guys, u are so...

I have to agree with WhatHappened. To divulge to a long-term SO that u are interested in exploring polyamory is a huge deal, and one should be very proud of themselves for having the balls\ovaries to do it. Many people are not interested in this lifestyle and they shouldn't be villified for it...

I am so sorry that u are having such a hard time right now. Breakups after a long relationship are often scary. I am glad that u are living your truth though. U should be very proud as well. I wish I was so strong.

I think u are absolutely right. I was supposed to be a cure-all and make him lose his desire to go swinging, which I don't tolerate and she doesn't like. Right now they just ditched me to go drinking at their daughter's friend's paren's house. I'm not invited cause it might seem weird. Great...

Thank you so much. That's the most useful advice anyi really appreciate it.one has given me in a long time.

Perhaps the reality of it all didn't hit heruntil she saw the pics and she panicked. I have experienced this feeling before in my own life. The feeling of "oh wow, this is really happening". It could very well have nothing to do with your appearance. I think you may be projecting your...

confused I am sincerely asking the forum why is no one responding to this thread? I would please like to be advised as to how I can write a better thread so that I may get reaponses. I truly would like your advice and opinion as to how I should proceed with my delimma. Thank you so much.

Also, as a totally unrelated sidenote, and ex has just started calling and texting after years of nothing begging me to marry him! When it rains it p:rolleyes:ours, eh?

Why thank you so very much. Might be vacating Utah soon anyway :(

Hello again. Sorry I have been away for awhile. I know that I'm not a huge presence on this site but I really trust all of you and I appreciate that this site exists. Things have been crazy and I'm very confused. About a month ago I had an emotional episode having to do with frustrations with my...

Thank you! I'm not in vegas, I'm in utah. How are you?

If there is not true consent and total honesty its not polyamory in my opinion. Its merely lust, manipulation, and the corruption of a relationship. Amd its just mean.

selfishness, selfishness Oh my she sounds selfish. Her complete lack of concern for your feelings tells me something very clearly. This is not polyamory. This is an affair leading up to the dissolution of a marriage. Sorry.