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Thanks. You could be right, but that is one of the things I am appreciating about this community… the openness to other ideas, and the primacy of each person being to define for themselves the nature of their relationship, as long as everyone involved understands and agrees. Certainly, finances...

Just catching up on all the discussion around my original post and the topic around “dead marriage," etc. It has been a huge help and I appreciate the thoughtful consideration and different perspectives. For clarification, I would, after reading this thread, say that my marriage in NOT “dead,”...

The fact that there is no dating/intimacy involved at all with my “nesting partner” is what confuses me a little in regards the “amorous” part of the “polyamorous” part. But no worries. just a new language.

Very helpful. Thank you!

Wife really likes that term nesting partner. Feels very gentle and supportive.

Well, just for fun... I am responding to this thread while on a little solo kayak campy trip on Casco Bay in Maine (Portland) listening to ocean while reading.... Polysecure! 😊 My "nesting partner" and I are taking it very slow while we both learn about this model and think through the various...

Thank you so much. What I am loving about this community is the non-judgmental acceptance and understanding of these situations. Wherever I speak with friends about the situation, their first solution is divorce, which is not our desired path, as it would be devastating for so many reasons.

Hey, I've been learning so much about polyamory. I'm going through the Polysecure book now. It's really impactful. I still have lots of work to do on defining what I want/hope for. Question, though... My wife and I have not been romantically involved for well over 15 years. The reasons don't...

Hello - My name is Joe and I am just starting my journey exploring poly community. So much to learn… alll the different “flavors” are a bit overwhelming. I've been married almost twenty years, but my wife and I have not been intimate since we conceived our second son, close to 18 years ago...