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Short and sweet posts always lead to fun phone calls! Some friends are going to Europe for a year to work, and have offered to let us house sit while they are out of the country! We'll pay utilities and do general upkeep and get to live rent free. For this, they've agreed to pay half of the...

Got to hang out with Zelda this evening. Good day. :)

People make me mad! Our poly meetup (of which Keith and I voluntarily took over one meeting and have somewhat unofficially been put in charge of the other since the official host conveniently cancels last minute every month) is NOT formatted as a place to meet people to date. Sure, it happens on...

Zelda and I are officially "dating." Neither of us are really sure that acknowledging that is going to change anything (we're still really getting to know each other), but it's good to know since we're attending a lot of poly events together (as in actually riding/showing up together) so people...

I don't mean that we'll literally fight about it, but I can see myself having to point out every time it happens, explaining how it makes me feel and why, over a lengthy span of time before any lasting changes occur in behavior. She said it more as a warning - an "I will probably do this too"...

That is a very good point. Our date nights (Keith and mine) are generally one of two activities (or both if we're in a spendy kind of mood): dinner and movie. Movie is always in the same place - a mall we NEVER go to unless we're going to see a movie. Dinner can be at places we go to when we're...

I find this interesting... How is requesting that sex not happen in HER bed controlling his other relationships? She says that she was working through the issues with them having sex in general while she was at work (since she realized that it's unrealistic/unfair), but not using the bed was a...

I know this has been talked about before, but I can't find it for the life of me! I was talking to someone I recently started dating (as in we made it official about 2 days ago... haha), and it came up that Keith had mentioned that I have gotten frustrated with him in the past for checking out...

I officially had a "we're dating, right?" conversation without it being too terribly awkward! Woohoo! I think I've actually learned something from all of the craziness that was my most recent relationship and reading all the stories on here. :) Most definitely a success in my book.

I do stupid, stupid things sometimes... A week away was a bit much. I missed Keith like crazy, he was needy when I got back, AND I didn't realize how difficult it would be to make sure I had time to reconnect with him after being gone and to make time to see Zelda as soon as I could, too. I...

I've watched the first 4 episodes (finally found the online - yay!) and so far I've thought it's really good. There is a lot of sex, but I expected that. The quad seems to communicate ALL THE TIME while the triad seems a little more natural in their communication. My only complaint is how often...

My second most recent message: "I am so hot can we chat"

Zelda and I held hands as we walked along the beach, cuddled in a sea cave, and kissed on a rock in the shallows. It was a good day. :) Now I am ramping up my energy for my trip to visit family. I'm packed, I've done a crap load of housework, and I've spent as much time as possible with Keith...

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I'm pretty sure I'm just not meant to be in a second relationship with a man. lol Bashful finally contacted me again, apologizing for the absenteeism and just saying that there had been some relationship issues on the home front on top of one of the kids being sick part of the week (I knew about...

Oh, NRE, how I love thee... I am enjoying getting to know Zelda. Our extreme flirting/complimenting has gotten to hilarious levels. We both giggle about it because we went from feeling awkward about flirting to just throwing anything that pops into our heads out there. It's fun. It's silly...

Here are a couple of tag searches of various threads that cover this topic: threads tagged "coming out poly" and threads tagged "coming out". Different people use different approaches, so reading through a few of these threads may be helpful. You may also use different tactic/approach with...

Welcome to the site! :) I look forward to hearing your insights and experiences.

I'm really excited - I may get to spend some quality time with Zelda this weekend! She and I are hoping that we can all go on a random overnight trip (we all = me, Keith, Zelda, and Zelda's hubby) to the coast. Zelda and I are very much water people, while our husbands are not, so it will be...

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