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I see your point In many ways I see your point. The compersion-like sentiment in sex I am talking about is the fact that you enjoy your wife getting pleased by another man. Very often, you do not want to join in. It is not necessary for you to join in. BTW it is possible that you are not...

I hear you I hear you man. However, I still have to keep in mind many of the people who are fighting for us are mono practicing. There are as passionate as me in fighting to all sexual minority. Uh oh. I got a YouTube comment notification of some mono trying to tell me that you can minimize the...

For the most part you are correct I am afraid you are very very likely to be correct and I am being probably to generous. As bad as I want to say activism can be done covertly, what activists conceal their identity. I plan on coming out on YouTube as a poly activist but I have disguised...

Thanks For The Advice Kevin thanks for spending the time for such insightful advice. I will continue to read it over and keep it in my thanks. I am dead serious.

You're Correct. Non-Sensitivity to Negative Reactions are often neccessary I am shockingly 46 years old. I could see your point. However, let me provide a couple of facts: 1. My mom suspects I may be gay. Since I am not 19 years old, many of my relatives find it strange that I have never...

I have been thinking about your comment Before I share my full thoughts, I want to apologize for poorly communicating the idea that there are no monogamous couples who defend the non-monogamous lifestyle. I need to work on this part of my communication and I appreciate the criticism. Now let...

Although I am not interested in a relationship at the moment, there is a slight possibility I may be interested in one in the future. I call myself poly because I believe that is the orientation that I will accept from my possible girlfriend. So the reference to myself as poly is primarily...

Thanks Vince for Seeing My True intent Thanks for seeing my true intentions in my poorly communicated views on monogamy.:):):) What I mean is I often fail to communicate the image of poly accepting monos (even though they are in the minority). There are poly accepting monos and these people...

I support Poly Accepting Monos! Sorry Poor Communication Before I respond to many responses who expressed blunt offense to my statements about large segments of monogamous people, I greatly apologize to polyamorous people who I gave the wrong impression that I am referring to their mono friends...

Only Mono sex! The monos believe this as well but it is monogamous sex where sex must always be a celebration of devotion and commitment. Any type of sex for recreation which involves multiple people will increase STDs and make you lonely and miserable and truly unhappy. They use the analogy...

Nsfl It's also a NSFL site. Not Safe For The Library. I often browse this forum at the library. It's really not a good idea to browse fetlife there. I know one guy who browsed some sexually suggestive material and received a warning from the librarian.:D:D:D:D

Yet they freak out about sex outside of marriage Yet they get in a tizzy fit if you have sex outside of marriage. Vanilla monos simply frustrate me! :mad:If sex is not that fucking important in marriage why is it so important to refrain from outside of marriage? It's somewhat a rhetorical...

It's really no problem! There are active conversations about poly. However, I just have to be flexible and look at the site at home because of the porn BDSM ads on the side. I started to participate in a discussion forum already.

Sorry for bad wording! I appreciate your link, seriously! Sorry Fallen, I didn't mean to sound ungrateful.:):):) I'll just have to be careful and use the site in non-public places or at home. I really can not access the website at a library because someone MAY complain. But that is fine. I am...

Demisexual reflects at least half of the popluation I concur. This is quite a normal occurrence. Even though I could have sex without a serious (emotional) connection.

Any new insights about views of infidelity by monos Have you ever asked them why sexless marriages are loyal? I know I provided my theory but I was wondering if you heard any different insight.

I agree I agree they even showed porn ads of BSDM. I don't mind porn but not when I don't expect it. I thought I was going to find some boards to have some serious discussions about poly.

Moralist Mono Logic Explained NOT Justified!! It is because they don't think polyamory and mono are equal moral preferences. Furthermore, they perceive the reasons that you provide for why mono doesn't work for you are just "EXCUSES" not to "commit" and at the very most have sex with ONLY your...

I agree. There should be no struggling on this issue but that is not REALITY. My mom would not accept poly and it would be a MAJOR dividing point in our relationship if I practiced poly. This is not just a simple difference in opinion such as pro-anti abortion, pro-anti death penalty or even...

It isn't the nasty remarks alone Unfortunately these nasty remarks are used to reinforce that poly families are immoral and most importantly a poor environment to raise children. There is nothing wrong with the nasty remark per se but the problem is when these nasty sentiments collectively...