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  1. ColorsWolf

    Anarchy! (Um . . . Relationship Anarchy, that is.)

    Yes, yes that is quote of me saying that.~ I'm glad you like it~ ^_^ And I'm glad you found this topic comforting, it brings me such joy to make other people happy!~ ^_^ Thank you for sharing that, sending love your way!~ ^_^ 1. I don't know what to say other than what I've already said.~...
  2. ColorsWolf

    Anarchy! (Um . . . Relationship Anarchy, that is.)

    That's the nature of things isn't it?~ I don't see things as 'being in a relationship or not'.~ I honestly don't know.~ I don't consider connecting with some one offline to be "more meaningful" than online and to imply that my online interactions were "not in the real-world" is highly...
  3. ColorsWolf

    Anarchy! (Um . . . Relationship Anarchy, that is.)

    I honestly already saw love and relationships this way as every time some one tried to tell me "you have to have these rules if your going to do that" I always asked "why?".~ I decide what to do with my relationships, I feel how I feel, and I see things how I see them and no matter what any one...
  4. ColorsWolf

    Philosophical Question: If You Have A Reason To Love, Do You Truly Love?

    I'm enjoying your answers, please keep them coming!~ ^_^
  5. ColorsWolf

    Anarchy! (Um . . . Relationship Anarchy, that is.)

    As long as you're not actively telling other people things that "aren't yet true" then you are right: this isn't lying.~ I do know what you mean though: if you are normally reserved and not prone to speaking your opinions in public because you are afraid to do these things and you decide to be...
  6. ColorsWolf

    Philosophical Question: If You Have A Reason To Love, Do You Truly Love?

    Here's some further thought provoking questions: Are we just a collection of aspects or is there some thing more to us that makes each of us unique, some thing immutable and that can not be copied?~ Our essence?~ Our heart, our soul?~ Our perspective?~ Every thing about us all put together...
  7. ColorsWolf

    Philosophical Question: If You Have A Reason To Love, Do You Truly Love?

    Love is often said to be illogical and have no reason to it.~ Often I learned that some people say when their lover asked them why they loved them, they said, "I don't have a reason, I just love you." It that is true, then if some one actually has a reason to love you, do they really love you...
  8. ColorsWolf

    Anarchy! (Um . . . Relationship Anarchy, that is.)

    Nor do I find it applicable, because it's basically telling you to lie to please the perception of others.~ Relationship Anarchy is all about no pre-set rules: freedom to handle your relationships how ever you choose to, what ever you choose to do with your relationships make sure it is what...
  9. ColorsWolf

    Anarchy! (Um . . . Relationship Anarchy, that is.)

    Glad I could help!~ ^_^ I'm sympathetic to your situation of online-dating not working out for you, even though you may find a wonderful site like did with OkCupid the truth may still be that there aren't that many people who "resonate well" with you.~ Too many times I have found some one who...
  10. ColorsWolf

    Radical Honesty. Interview with the author

    I feel the same way, except for the politeness part.~ I think another thing crazy about today's culture is the over-implication of being "polite".~ Seriously some people are so "polite" they will literally NOT say ANYTHING, just like politicians.~ Hence why we have such a huge problem with...
  11. ColorsWolf

    Anarchy! (Um . . . Relationship Anarchy, that is.)

    Relationship Anarchy in the simplest way can be defined as, "Relationships Without Pre-Set Rules".~ It's actually kind of ironic don't you think?~ That people need a "name" for what relationships basically are before you start talking about what you and those involved want in the...
  12. ColorsWolf

    Radical Honesty. Interview with the author

    This is a thing?~ Really?~ Seriously?~ People really need a "movement" to actually be honest, seriously?~ I'm already like this and have been for a long time.~ It's obviously not the truth of what you're saying that is always "offensive", but how you say it.~ I've found that cussing and...
  13. ColorsWolf

    Anarchy! (Um . . . Relationship Anarchy, that is.)

    In many ways the way that I see relationships can be likened to Relationship Anarchy in that there is no "1 way" to deal with or treat all relationships.~ Every relationship is unique whether I feel love for some one, sexual attraction, etc. depends on those involved: me and them.~ I feel what...
  14. ColorsWolf

    Is it weird to not like sugar?~

    Is it weird to not like sugar?~ When I say "sugar", I mean "artificially processed sugar".~ The problem I have with modern Humans' version of "sugar" is that it has gone through a factory where machines have refined it so much that one tablespoon is super concentrated and packed with so much...
  15. ColorsWolf

    Is "Distance" Really Important for Online Dating?~

    Unfortunately, the profiles I respond to often only have the "preferred area" feature of the website (OkCupid.com) and say nothing else on the subject of distance.~ Thank you all for your wonderful inputs on this subject, I hope to hear and learn more!~ ^_^
  16. ColorsWolf

    Is "Distance" Really Important for Online Dating?~

    Every thing could "be a waste" and every thing could "be worth doing", it's all a matter of your perspective of how you see it.~ I respect your perspective, but for myself I see every thing as precious to me no moment "is wasted" and every thing matters to me.~ :)
  17. ColorsWolf

    Is "Distance" Really Important for Online Dating?~

    I'm glad to hear to your perspective as much as every one else's perspectives.~ This kind of discussion is exactly what I wanted to open up with this thread.~ ^_^
  18. ColorsWolf

    Is "Distance" Really Important for Online Dating?~

    There are no "guarantees" in life, life "owes" you nothing, you have just as much chance of dying if you consider yourself to be "a wonderful person" than if you consider yourself to be "a horrible person".~ Some thing you have put much time and effort into could not turn out how you expected...
  19. ColorsWolf

    Is "Distance" Really Important for Online Dating?~

    Well I speak only for myself when I say this: I ideally would probably get to know some one online for at least a few months or even a year before I even think about "meeting up".~ My thinking is that if we really might have a future together then simply talking to each other would make our...
  20. ColorsWolf

    Is "Distance" Really Important for Online Dating?~

    Often I will find some one I really feel like I would get along with very well, find out they just happen to be in an exotic country (like Finland or New York), get very excited, and contact them only to have them either completely ignore my well-thought-out lengthy message or reply upset that...
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